I just told my ex that i liked him again after 4 months of rejecting him (hes been wanting me back) but the timing was kinda off because he just asked this other girl to come to the semi with him.
Do you think that i was being wrong about this...? i knew that they talked about going to semi together but i had to tell him i liked him again because my friend said id probably regret it if i didnt tell him...
i caused confusion i know - he is really confused right now..
but what woudl u do if u were him?
Like of course he kinda likes her, but he says he is still stuck on me (he was talking to a friend of mine about it)..
what would u do if uwere him?
The girl he invited already bought a dress and everything and she cant come unless she comes with him because shes not a senior.
2007-02-01 15:38:03 · 5 answers · asked by anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol no i am not jeaolus of her shes a really nice girl... like even if he decides that he likes me more i dont know what id do because id feel awful for her... and when i rejected him for the last 4 months it was cuz i didnt like him but i do now again... oh and im 17... someone was wondering
2007-02-01 15:53:47 · update #1
Let him go with this girl, they ahve alredy planned it together and it does sound like you got jelous and decided to stop playing hard to get and all of a sudden.
If he is still hooked on you then after their date he will still want you and in his own time he will realise that he cant feel for her the way he does for you. If you dont give them the chance, he may miss something special.. (how old are you?) If you care for him so much let him go and be free to think things through, dont pressure him, trust me if your really the one for him he will know when he is still wishing it was you there instead of her... and when he says your name be accident.
If you stopped him he would never have the chance to feel those feelings for himself and may even end up resenting your relationship for a missed oppurtunity.
Let it ride for a little while, go with the flow, dont seem to desperate, and dont play hard to get... if you didnt do that to begin with, you wouldnt be here now.
Goodluck.
peace x
2007-02-01 15:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to be honest with her; and if having bought her dress is a problem then if the girl agrees to still go with him but as a friend then probably that will work better; and once there try not to get close to them at all; she has feelings and you have to consider her too.
He has to tell her before that day; is not fair to play two cards with nobody at all; you will not respect him for that at all.
2007-02-01 23:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by Pandora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u really like or are you just jealous that he likes another girl finally? It shouldnt take u 4 months to realise u still have feelings for someone so i reckon ur just jealous...would u have told him if he wasnt planning to take someone else?
2007-02-01 23:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. it's up to him now. since he's confused just explain it to him thoroughly and in person so he doesn't get any mixups on your tone or something. and make sure he doesn't think you're jealous of this other girl. cause if he gets that impression, then he might just reject you...well good luck...and make sure he tells that other girl what's going on.
2007-02-01 23:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by zainabainza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats what happens when you play hard to get , you just didnt start liking him until he notice another girl ,well if i were him i would make you suffer
2007-02-01 23:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by DIAMOND 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋