I dont get why he would do this? Other than the fact that he could be cheating, or talking to someone that he doesnt want me to know about. You see we've been together for 3 years and have a 3month baby. I dont want to lose the father of my child, but he's gone tooo far. I even investigated further and checked his phone and now he's protected his text and phone messages with a password. He's obviously doing something, and is sooo devestating to know he would be doing this during a time when His baby girl and family should be the most important thing. Now tell me what do you think?
2007-02-01 15:32:05 · 10 answers · asked by Lina Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really hate to make u even more upset. but to me it seems to me that he is cheating.. becuase he has locked up his phone. On a happier note though.. maybe =]] he is planning a surprise for you and he doesnt want you to find out anything! but if u talk to him... ask him some questions andd see wahts upp im sure if he sasy NOTHING.. DONT WORRY ABOUT IT. then hes prob. cheating. i hope this helps really. good luck with everything and i hope that everything works out for you!! honestly there is nothing more sad than seeing a father of a 3 mothn baby cheat on his girlfriend. i feel for you honestly.!
best of luck. my wishes to you.
2007-02-01 15:38:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is sad to say, but many men do cheat on their wives or significant others during pregnancy and the early years of their child's lives. This is a statistical fact. If he is not cheating, he is definitely hiding something. If he has not been hiding the cell phone previously, and it is something new you really need to confront him about this.
Sometimes men feel left out of the relationship when there is a child involved, at least this is what is said about the situation when counseling is involved. He obviously knows that you are checking his phone if he has changed the access with a password.
You really need to confront him about this, you have enough stress in your life with a tiny baby to take care of without worrying about what he might or might not be doing.
I wish you the best, you have to do the best thing for you and your child; and even though you don't want to lose the father of your child, do you really want to be with someone you cannot trust.
You do not want to be having to snoop on him, either. That would be a horrible way to live. Trust is a huge factor in a relationship, and if there is a lack of trust, there is not a stable base for the relationship.
2007-02-01 16:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If you think he is cheating and have that gut feeling that it's stating the obvious then you already know what to do.... That is something that you must faced and not let it slide and is up to you if you want to be with him after it or not, no one can tell you otherwise. If you think he is cheating ask him, But do not yell it just say it and don't cream at him, Oh I know what you are thinking, " There is no way I'm gonna stay clam", but the reality is that you need to be in a state that you can make a decision that you will not regret and if you loose your temper you will loose control, not only that but if you are clam you are in charge of the conversation and you have better possibility that he will be honest.... I do not know you and maybe this might not mean much to you, but if he is I want to tell you that I am sorry, no one should go trough this kinda of disappointments in life.... for what is worth Good Luck and I hope is really nothing.
2007-02-01 15:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by jayden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does sound fishy. He should get a read out on the cell bill, should show some numbers, call the numbers, see who it is. I sure would not want to be with a man that has another woman on the string. If he has nothing to hide, he should not worry about you seeing the text , and bill.
2007-02-01 15:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah hes cheating . thats how it goes before you have a baby its cool then its vinger and oil after you have a baby it happens all the time you not going to be with your babydaddy the rest of your life so its time you start acting like it. once you show no interest in him he'll all of a sudden notice you and want to be with you . you'll see
2007-02-01 15:41:19 · answer #5 · answered by DIAMOND 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely cheating or at least talking to someone he shouldnt be talking to and thinking about cheating. You should confront him about it. If he says he is not doing anything wrong he is lying. Otherwise why would he hide it???
2007-02-01 15:39:49 · answer #6 · answered by Teri M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl sometimes guys just want there privacy and don't want us to touch there phones. but in your case I think that he's hiding something from you, he's probably talking to some b***h. You need to sit with him and ask what he wants out of this relationship and why he's doing this to you. good luck.
2007-02-01 15:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by suzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, you should respect his privacy. If you think he's cheating, confront him about it but DON'T SNOOP BECAUSE HE WILL NEVER EVER FORGET AND MAY NEVER FORGIVE YOU.
2007-02-01 15:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated you that's why he deactivated any communication from you.
2007-02-01 15:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the married women club! He's got another girl.
2007-02-01 15:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋