When you are search for the special someone to marry in the future, do you expect them to be virgins? Why or why not. Heck I want them tight and virgin.
2007-02-01 15:31:46 · 19 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me know when you find one....good luck buddy...
edit: let me rephrase that....if your find a pretty girl who's of legal age and a virgin...then let me know....
2007-02-01 15:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by nfocuz00 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, im not a virgin so why should i expect them to be a virgin. Thats putting a stipulation on the person you fall in love with. Like you wont love them if there not a virgin. You might not even give them a chance for that matter and you could be missing out on something great.
2007-02-01 15:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My cousin Sean is 32 and a Christian. he's worked at a Christian camp for years. he's likewise between the best, maximum nicely rounded people you will ever choose for to fulfill. he's likewise a virgin. His thirtieth birthday social gathering replaced into themed "the 30-300 and sixty 5 days-previous virgin". by using fact he hangs out with all styles of folk of all styles of faiths and existence, he's continually getting women who beg to take his virginity from him. and that i dont propose purely any ole chicks, I propose warm ones. yet he on no account wavers. he's waiting till he gets married. So . . . confident, there's a million. yet i'm additionally somewhat specific he's the only one.
2016-12-16 19:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by shery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, for a couple of reasons.
1) I'd like to marry a girl who has some sexual experience - I don't want somebody who doesn't know what she likes and what she really wants (she might figure out what she wants one day, and it might not be me!)
2) I'm 38 and unless the girl I meet is really young, I would HOPE that somewhere along the line she got some! It would be sad to meet a 38 year old woman who's still a virgin.
3) as for the "tightness" thing - women have two holes down there you know - if the front hole isn't tight enough for ya, she's always got a back door!
2007-02-01 15:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Me and my boyfriend have decided to wait until our 20s or until we get married. ^_^ It shows that he loves me enough to be with me forever, and we both keep our virginity. I read this in a book before, something along these lines:
There are two fruit shops, one is a market and has bright fruits that the people can touch and decide on what they want. Another has normal looking plain fruits, but they are enclosed with a case and people can look until they want to choose, but can not touch. When the lights go out the first market's fruit has flies and turn rotten. They are eventually thrown out. The second market still stays fresh, until chosen.
If you are smart enough, you will probably get the hint what this means.
If you aren't and are thinking: Wtf?!? What does fruit have to do with sex???... Then I pity you. Don't feel bad.
Anyhow I do expect my boyfriend to be a virgin, hopefully we last that long. But for guys, its harder for them to be virgins. If we don't last I guess I don't 'expect' (though I would want) my boy to be a virgin once I marry him.
2007-02-01 15:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by UrNightmare 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Been there, got the string vest! I met my girlfriend in the mid sixties, she was the friend of my mate’s sister and up to that point I had barely noticed her. I just remembered a mousy girl in a duffle coat passing me in my mates hall way. My friend informed me that his sister had said that this girl liked me ("don't get excited", he said, "she's nowt special"), but, as I was having a lot of trouble getting a girlfriend, (22 years old and had never had one), I said I would meet her at a local function the next day. To cut a long story short we eventually started a two-year courtship and then became engaged for a further year.. At that time the swinging sixties was at its peak and my mates girls were in short skirts and sported the "big hair" of that period and were well “bedded” in a pretty short space of time. Mine kept to her sensible shoes, a home-trimmed fringe and a duffle coat. She also made it pretty clear she was going to be a virgin until she was well and truly wed. She also said she had never even kissed a member of the opposite sex. Nevertheless during the second year of our courtship we became lovers in all but the final act. Despite having nowhere much to be on our own, when we were able, the sexual tension was intense and we drove each other into a crazy ecstasy which could last for hours at a time, but always stopping short of the final "push", so to speak. I also became aware early on that under all that clothing was an absolutely wonderful figure that was so well concealed from everyone but me. Eventually we married, and as I was waiting at the alter and the music announced her arrival, my best man (the same mate referred to arlier), turned to look at her. Oh! my god! his jaw dropped to his chest, I turned, standing beside me was a vision, gone was the mousey fringe, and a minimum amount of makeup had turned a plain-Jane into an absolute beauty. I honestly had no idea she had such a lovely face. She gave me the most wonderful smile I'd ever seen. The honeymoon passed in a pink haze, our loving was slow and tender and of course fully "consummated" .Our love life continued along much the same lines as before and we always drove each other to giddy heights of passion in the most gentle of ways but with intercourse being the franetic desperate act often over in seconds! This was always seen as the icing on the cake, so-to-speak and never as the main event. Over the next few years out love life continued to change and grow and we produced two daughters. And now, after 39 years we are still passionate lovers in much the same way. It's true that it now happens a little less often but I look back and wonder at my good fortune in having a woman who was prepared to say, no.....not yet!
Incidently my wife pokes fun at my mate and calls him "Nowt Special" and he accepts this with good humour. Boy .......was he wrong!
Take little notice of the "sexual compatibility" issue, just be sensitve to your partners needs and she/he is not happy with some aspect of you loving, just don't force it on them. there are many ways of pleasing each other. I think that the best turn-on by far is to know your partner is enjoying whatever you are doing. Good luck!
2007-02-04 03:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Wayne A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think there are many virgins around today. A guy should not expect his wife to be a virgin if he isn't. Besides, if you've got a big tool it will be tight.
2007-02-01 15:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I married a virgin
2007-02-01 15:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think if someone is a virgin, they want to be with a virgin, if someone isn't a virgin, they still may have their preferences, but I don't think it's as big of a deal
2007-02-01 15:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, because it's 2007, and I date men over 30.
2007-02-01 15:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Pleo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think it matters. May be at some point it s important to you, But if you find the right person, then none of that matters
"Don't worry if your wife had someone before you, worry if She has someone after..."
2007-02-01 15:48:45 · answer #11 · answered by angel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋