he's in a couple of my classes. he's super shy and i really like him! i'm not shy, but i have problems with talking to guys i like.
i haven't really talked to him before.
could you tell me what i should say to him or what i should do to get him to notice me?
And how can I start a conversation and when????
2007-02-01 15:20:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm in high school! i can't talk to him at work!
2007-02-01 15:23:35 · update #1
Why-start a conversation now! When he`s alone, why don`t you sit next to him, and say hi? Then start asking him questions, or even make a joke! Don`t worry, shy guys are usually very kind and sweet, and he`ll probably fall in love with you right away.
2007-02-01 15:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by Alison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's shy he won't open up right away. Start a pretty small conversation and then eventually start to ask him about himself, what he's interested in. Make sure you take the time to listen and do not talk over him. Feel comfortable during silent pauses because he may be gathering his thoughts, so give him some time and he will open like a flower.
And finally, compliment him so that he can feel more self assured.
If you guys get along, you'll eventually see his other side, that will not be shy around you :)
2007-02-01 23:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he is in a couple of your classes you have the perfect opportunity to praise him on a question he answered in class or a project he had done. That will help you slowly break the ice with him.
It also wouldn't hurt to ask him for help on home work assignment. When you do ask him make sure to keep eye contact with him and give him a nice smile.
Good luck !
2007-02-01 23:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nina C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it may be, you just have to start it yourself. Start with small talk, like about homework or something. Everyone likes talking, shy people just need to be coaxed into it. I'm sure once you start you can have a perfectly good conversation, be courageous and remember that regret for things you didn't do is much worse than for things you did do.
2007-02-01 23:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you introduce yourself to him and say "hay I've noticed that your in a couple of my classes, I was just wondering if you want to hand out with me during lunch break". That way you can become friends and he will be comfortable around you and he can come out of his shell. Then from school luch you can progress to outside school like movies,coffee and whatever else. Good luck
2007-02-01 23:29:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply walk up and say hi, coming from a shy guy, break the ice visit and I promise that you will get a conversation. Then go from there
2007-02-01 23:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by flbtigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have pretty much the same problem of not being able to talk to guys that I think are cool. But mabye you should find out what hobbies he likes or talk about a movie that he likes. Mabye he will like you and think your a nice person!
2007-02-01 23:28:02 · answer #7 · answered by Brown-eyed Beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit next to him when your not doing anything in class and just start talking. Casual things... "hi" "how have you been lately" you know. Anything like that, just get him to talk to you a little bit. After a while maybe he'll start liking you cause your someone who talks to him? you never know! Good luck!
2007-02-01 23:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's shy, then if you compliment him or make him feel like u like him, he'll be even more shy cuz he wont know how to act! you should try to talk to him little by little so he feels comfortable with you, and then let him know subtley that u kind alike him. If you can somehow put him in a situation where he can do something nice for you, try that and if he does it, then pursue that! make him feel like ur really grateful! and....yea!!! you guys will fall in love!
2007-02-01 23:24:56 · answer #9 · answered by urmysuperman86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he's in a couple of your classes, talk/ask him something that you think he could answer from one of those classes.like, mayb something was not clear 2 u and u remembered that he was there so mayb he could help u with that. u could start from there and probably go on to other topics so u'll be able to continue talking ot him.
just be subtle about it and the next thing you know u'll be swapping #'s & sms-ing each other.
2007-02-01 23:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by m A r i S S e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋