Ive been dating this guy for over a month. He is 33, mexican and I am 25, american. We are both successful and intelligent people. He is very romantic, sweet, and thoughtful...hes told me he really likes me..however, sometimes he for example...we were in Barnes n' Noble tonight and I said I wanted to look at books with him after we drank coffee...he started looking at the magazines and passed by one with Eva Mendez, he said oooh look...then he opened the magazine and started looking at the girls and said "ohh I like this"...then he laughed and said, "you said you wanted to look at the magazines with me". He commented one time on a girls bikini while we were at the pool saying how sexy it was. I talk sometimes about a friend who likes me...this friend is very feminin and my "boyfriend' knows we are just friends...is he kind of jealous? Why would he say these things about other girls? Is this normal? I didnt grow up with a dad and dont have a lot of experience, please help.
2007-02-01 15:20:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if a guy is your boyfriend and if he truely cares about your feelings, he wouldnt be telling you that he thinks other girls are "sexy". pretty, is ok but when he says sexy, that's just crossing the line. if he doesnt care how it makes you feel then he doesnt care about you... nough said.
if he keeps up.... i would drop him
good luck!
emily
2007-02-01 15:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 02:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he just says girls are hot, sexy etc, I wouldnt be too worried. you have to trust that your relationship is deeper than that. I'm sure you see men out in public that you think are very attractive, you just dont hoot and holler in front of your boyfriend, because you have more sense, because you are a woman. So, I think don't worry about it. if your relationship gets serious and it keeps bothering you, mention it, if he doesnt change, drop him.
good luck!
2007-02-01 15:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you know any other mexicans? If so, inquire to see if they have a different perception on complementing other women.
Tell him how it makes you feel. Communication is the key.
2007-02-01 15:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Chitea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should do the same with him, and see how he reacts. Plus, the important thing is that he "looks" but doesn't "touch". Oh, and it's not a "Mexican" thing it's a "man" thing.
2007-02-03 05:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mari76 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man i think he is doing this to anger you maybe scare you away.
2007-02-01 15:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by mike j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋