I ask because strangely enough some guys in particular just don't seem to consider it cheating if they happen to sleep with their ex-girlfriends, even while in relationships. Why? Because that is not new grounds that they are exploring. This is familiar territory. My boy recently did the same thing. Ex came home for christmas visit, and he was all up on her grill the entire time she was there, though claiming to be in a very significant relationship. Seeing the two of them together, you would swear they never broke up. She didn't even have to bat her eyelashes and he came running of his own free will. And it honestly just wasn't about the sex. They were literally acting like a couple, going out on dates, talking, acting all in love. Unless that is true love hidden in their warped relationship, or some really great sex, I'm at a loss for words.
To me, cheating is cheating...but what do you all think? Is it cheating when you dip with an ex?
2007-02-01 15:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
same thing I told him too...cheating is cheating and if you so claim to love your girl then why you still messing with your ex? can't always have your cake and eat it. But there just seems to be something about her that he just can't fully let go of. I feel sorry for his girl though because she just isn't getting 100% of him..and if she believes so, she's in for a huge shock.
2007-02-01 15:30:18 · update #1
Of course its cheating, anybody besides his current r-ship is definitely cheating.
2007-02-01 15:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree do unto others as you would have done to you. An X of mine once told me(while in the relationship) The one thing they are jealous is that you have slept with that person and for some reason they think you will again. I`m a FIRM believer keeping the current relationship #1 priority. Unfortunately not all people are loyal to loved ones. By the way, I would never do anything like that to the one I loved. Its not the appropriate behavior for a loved one. Find someone similar to these beliefs your results will be more favourable. Good luck.
2007-02-01 15:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately Cheating.
2007-02-01 15:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn striaght its cheating. Your right cheating is cheating no matter what. So by these grounds its ok to cheat on my husband with every past boyfriend that i've ever had. Thats just stupid. Cheating is cheating
2007-02-01 15:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by angellover6056 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating and rude for him to act like that . If he is suppose to be with you, he needs to act like it. I think you can do better than that, stop letting him make a fool out of you.
2007-02-01 15:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's definitely cheating. I don't care if you've slept with the person revious to the relationship you're in, if you're sleeping with someone not you girlfriend/boyfriend, its cheating!
2007-02-01 15:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by kate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok.. while she sent that msg, it meant that shes searching for wish.. no rely what yuve carried out, she develop into meant to seek for advice from you, like while the incorrect develop into yurs now its hers, cuz curiously yu didnt cheat on her, and she or he didnt have faith you. So basically ask her to connect up, tell her its imp, until now valentines, and tell her the tale as though yur basically announcing it to make stuff clean no longer something like yu wanna get decrease back.. after yu comprehend she heard each and all the tale, and yu clearified all yu have been given, Be like "yet yu be attentive to, now i cant belive that yu didnt tell me this until now, and yu made all we had flow to waste, and specifically yu didnt have faith me" So now whether shes appropriate, she'l be on the vulnerable spot. and then enable her clarify, after that if she sounds like she desires to make stuff greater effectual. Ask her in a daft way... " welll .. errrmm, yu wanna be my valentine? " It relies upon on the respond if it would flow on or no longer.
2016-11-02 02:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh YEAH thats cheating!
2007-02-01 15:21:56 · answer #8 · answered by yeller 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, its cheating
2007-02-01 15:23:04 · answer #9 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋