Haven't even met her in person yet, but we have talked for hours and hours and hours on end on MySpace, finding so much in common. We are now planning a European trip next month. Is this more likely to fail or succeed?
2007-02-01 15:18:25 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
isn't this the way alot of people get kidnapped and raped over myspace???
2007-02-09 13:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by coolpotatoeslive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sure go to a place where you don't know no one or have no place to go if things go bad.... Have you any idea the bad position you are putting your self into. Sure it sounds romantic, why not we all want to find love. But the truth is you do not know this person, You do not know if this person is who they say they are... This is a very bad idea, haven't you heard of people that get killed, badly hurt, turn into sex slaves, Con artist, and that is just one of few things that could happen..... If you are not worry about this you should be. And it doesn't matter if you are a guy or a girl, you can be a victim, and you are setting you self for more than just disappointment.....The best thing you can do is Meet this person in a public area, have a couple of dates a see how that turns out then take it from there, But please don't be that stupid.
2007-02-01 15:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by jayden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably fail........ How can you go away with a woman you don't know.
Be street smart. she could be a murderer, theif anyones guess. The thing about the internet is you can be whoever you want. It's not only silly for you to go on this trip but very dangerous.
People have done this before and how many times has the outcome been negative?
good luck anyway
2007-02-01 15:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should meet a couple of times though it's nice to do something wild! I mean at least see each other for a date, you might decide the physical chemistry isn't working for you! Would you rather be stuck from from home with a person that you my not really compatible with!
2007-02-01 15:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by Maria C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...that's a big leap (a European trip). Why not meet and do something smaller ... like ... go out for coffee .. catch a movie ... laugh at old people.
Something simple and within the borders of America (or which ever country you're from).
/just say'n
2007-02-01 15:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever plan a trip with some one you never met. get to know the person first . Meet few times locally.
2007-02-09 13:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Iqbal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your best bet is to meet each other a few times first then maybe after a year or so go on a trip. What if you go there and find out she is not who or what she is supposed to be?
2007-02-01 15:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well i have a myspace too and i met somebody....we talked ALOT......we got to 'know' eachother.....well he gave me his phone #....i called him....we talked......it was cool....I met him and he was NOTHING like he pretened to be......people lie on myspace and they lie anywhere, ur best choice is too just meet a REAL person.....u dotn want cyber love do u? cuz when u meet them u might actually end up going to europe and it being somebody TOTALY diff then wut they said, so i think if u are gon do that then mabey plan a day or weekend to actually meet eachother befor u go out da country!
2007-02-09 14:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by N!KK! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Leon in a way y'all are moving fast but in another way y'all are not. I'm going to tell you this. I meet my husband on a dating line and we talked for about a year before I saw him. And I don't regret it for one minute. Then after that we got married 1 1/2 years later. So it's up to what your heart says. Listen to your heart......It will never lead you wrong. So if it's meant to be it will be. Just believe in it......Good Luck!!!!
2007-02-09 14:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bad idea..that's a long time to have to spend together if in fact you meet there is no chemistry or you two just do not click. you can click wonderfully over myspace but the test is when you meet in person.
2007-02-01 15:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
fail. I don't know how far apart you live but. most of what you get on my space is not true. there is that 1 in a million. But I wouldn't be spending money on a trip to europe.
2007-02-09 06:41:04 · answer #11 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋