my 3 brothers a are olways having fun and im olways left out and parents B I T C H at me fore no reason. they always go to places with my younger brother who is 14 they say he is a much better brother.
2007-02-01 15:15:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
NO, the middle child is not the most hated,
just the most over-looked and left out!
It's like this:
The first born is the wonder child! AH my first born!!!
The 2nd Child is oh, another child, oh look the older one is walking, and then
The YOUNGEST child is the LAST born and "special"
because they are the last born.
It's crazy I know cuz the middle child is left out.
They have expectations for the first born
The Second child is just another child
And the BABY is sooooooo special!!!
That's how it was in my family.
All the hopes and dreams where put on the 1st born,
the 2 middle kids, me and my brother they didn't expect
any greatness from us.
And the BABY-- the last born HE was The Great HOPE and dreams, that the first born didn't fufil.
There are books on the birth order theory.
IM me if you want to chat about it!
I'm a middle child..........at least I was the only girl, but I didn't like all the attention my MOM poured onto my little brother and oldest brothers.
My and my middle brother seemed to fallen thru the cracks!
But guess what???
Who ended up with the must success in life?
Best family and good lives???
the 2 of us middle kids!!!!
Cuz we had to learn to deal and accept that we couldn't please other people and we had to please ourselves.
So, I suggest you apply yourself to your studies, find good friends who will treat you like the person you know you are.
Talk to your MOM, and tell her how you feel even if you don't think she is listening!!!
I wrote in a journal all the things I felt about my mom and the way she favored my youngest brother.
*I applied those skills to school, and did a lot of writing and won my approval from my own self worth, and things I achieved in school.
So turn your negatives in to positives.
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in the end, my youngest brother, he paid dearly for being mommy's favorite!!
2007-02-01 15:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hated is a bit strong. Left out, uncared for, unfavouritised. I HATE BEING THE MIDDLE CHILD!!! My brother is two years older than me so everything he does i new and exciting (stating school/work, driving etc) so when I get around to do those things no one cares. Then there is 7 years between my sister and me so by that time everything seems new again. I remember my broher starting high school and everyone was so excited. But when it came to my turn my sister started her first day of school. No one cares about the middle child, so yeah maybe we are hated!!!
2007-02-01 23:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by angellover6056 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a older brother who is 14 months older than me then i have a younger sister by 10 years...i use to get picked on all the time....i am older now and realise that if i was to have kids i'd treat them all the same....i have to agree with u the middle child is the most hated....sad but true!
2007-02-01 23:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by lusty_for_knowledge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no with my family im the least liked and im the youngest im 45 and my father hasnt spoke to me since before xmas
2007-02-01 23:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but they are the worst spellers
2007-02-02 00:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jonathan I 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋