i have 2 cousins which are twins. and sometimes they ignore me even though i spend a lot of time with them. at school, they sometimes talk to me,when they need something or ask something regarding to our assignments and projects. but when i go to them and try to open up a topic, they leave. what should i do?
2007-02-01 15:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Quit helping them when they ask. Tell them to find another sucker to ask.
2007-02-01 15:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just forget it if it takes a lot of effort just to talk to someone let them be all that... i got cousins like that who never talks to me only when the cousins leave them.
2015-11-13 16:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reverse Psychology, Ignore them when they come to you for help with something, ignore them. It always works! I go to school with my cousins who are very very preppy and they sometimes ignore me well I ignored them, everytime they came and asked for help with homework or projects or whatever, I told them I have plans and walk away! It really gets to them to where they see what they are doing too you. If it doesn't work I suggest not doing anything for them (unless emergency wise, they are family)!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-01 21:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by themysteriousmami24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they come up to you just leave, apparently they only claim you when they need something. I went through the same thing, i had a popular cousin and I only existed when she needed something or around family. I stopped helping her with her assignments and she failed and got kicked off the cheerleading team. She had to learn that she needs to do stuff herself.
2007-02-01 15:10:48 · answer #4 · answered by themom95 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give them some space and let them come to you. When you don't talk to someone you are so close to for lets say two or three days they are gunna miss you try it. When you do this then they see that you have your own life and have other things to do . let them come to you .....
2007-02-01 15:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ignore them too. or don't talk to them and see if they want to talk to you when you ask them something.
2007-02-01 15:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by richmond 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beat them up
2007-02-01 15:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Katherine P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them next time
2007-02-01 15:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get some other friends. If they are worth beaing friends with you, they will be!
2007-02-01 15:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by ggfan777 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find new cousins.
2007-02-01 15:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋