I really need to know.
2007-02-01 14:56:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you feel you are a better person because of knowing them. When you respect who they are, and admire who they are. And if you found they would be happier without you, you would love them enough to let them go. Their happiness means that much to you. You want only the best for them.
Warning..... the physical symptoms being described, even though they often turn into love, that is infatuation.
2007-02-01 15:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 49 and was married a long time . I have 4 kids which I love more than anything. I always loved my wife but I never felt like I was in-love with her. I always would wonder, did I even know what I was talking about! I would catch myself singing "I want to know what love is" and thinking there has to be more love than I had.
I was right, there is more than just loving someone, we love our kids one way, our parents another, and our special friends even have their own places in our hearts.
But true love, being in-love is a lot different!
Your extremely euphoric just thinking about them no matter where your at.
You feel really hurt inside when they have any pain , either mentally or physically.
You heart beats slower and harder when you know you will see them soon.
You can feel their warmth and scent as soon as they walk into the room.
Embracing them make you feel so safe and secure ( Safe as they are in your arms and are healthy and happy too)
Never wanting to be anywhere special without them with you to enjoy it with you.
When their happiness is as important to you as is yours.!
I miss the girl I'm in-love with right now. She's at work.
Lust lasts 1 nite our maybe a month , love lasts forever( Hopefully) Being in-love, Not sure 1st time for me, it feels like it could last infinitely right now1
2007-02-03 02:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by dan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've learned that theres no way to tell if your in love. the usual symptoms don't always mean love.. for about 2 weeks i thought i was in love with my friend because nomatter how sad or angry i was, he just had to look at me and smile and i'd get all giggley. whenever we were talking, nomatter what, i couldn't stop smileing.. once when i was sad.. realy sad.. i was on teh verge of tears.. he walked up and put his arm around my shoulders and said "why so blue panda bear?" in his cute little voice (its annoyingly highpitched but in an adorable way) and his whole attitude just screams "innocent little boy" and he's like a teddy bear because he hugs people all the time. even now.. i rarely get through a conversation withouht mentioning him and especially now since he's on restriction for a month so far and i dont' get to see him much im always "i miss him" and everytime someone says something i always relate it to him and i think about him and i smile. The other day i was eating chinese and choked on a noodle because i thought about him and laughed because the fortune cookie wrapper had a panda bear on it.
but im not in love withhim.. even though everyoen swears were in love with each other... were not.. were just really close friends.. imean.. he's the ONE person im pretty sure understands everything about me and i understand him (untill recently) adn we trust each other limitlessly... my mom swears were in love... but were not!
so don't always read the signs wrong.
2007-02-01 23:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by janna w 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will know love when you notice your bf has the qualities that you feel are important. Also, as you spend time together and build a relationship, you both seem to experience life in new ways.
2007-02-01 23:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by lookn5in28 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know that your in love when, your at the club with your friends and a gorgeous guy walks up to you and asks you to dance or offers to buy you a drink. You kindly decline and politely tell he that your seeing someone (and your not actually bummed out that you did it). That's when your in love. When nothing else but the two of you matter.
2007-02-01 23:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Teach 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although i'm a guy, i'm no stranger to love. It depends on your situation, though. But, you will know when you feel funny when you're near them and you imagine you and her/him (him in your case) together and having fun. Love is a bit enigmatic, but just try to work it out and if it works and if you have fun, and if you're happy: you're in love.
2007-02-01 23:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Liquid Snake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stomach hurts. You go to sleep thinking of them, dream with them, then wake up thinking of them. Songs are happier or sadder. Taste is wonderful. People who were a problem are forgiven and become tolerable. Your family is not worried for you as much. Your senses are sharper and you are on top of the world. You think about God more often and you want to live.
God bless us all...
2007-02-01 23:03:56 · answer #7 · answered by lee f 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You will know believe me!! You will feel like your going to die if you can't be with him all the time (this to changes eventually) and you can't bear to think of him ever being hurt-physically or mentally, you want to take care of them always, wash his clothes, comb his hair (this will change to)clean his house and you want to please him and make him happy!If you see him even look at another girl- you want to kill the girl not him-even if she did nothing to provoke it- and I think that's about the best way that I can sum it up!!
2007-02-01 23:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by buffster06 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Agreed - You WILL KNOW! Thinking about the person will make you smile. You feel it throughout your entire body.
2007-02-01 23:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by TimonSK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let him move in...really it just feels right all over, every ounce of my being knows something is going on.
2007-02-01 23:00:46 · answer #10 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋