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Question

so i met this girl who broke up with her ex and i know her ex anywaz i made her feel good and made her laugh anytime she spoke to me, she liked me and text me, one night i text her and she wasnt aas usuall i asked if she is keeping in something about me (since i dont give her much attention) she said its not u i said is anything or one bothering u she said no infact my life is even better now since i got this amazing guy which i dont deserve in my life (i thought she was talking about me ) and she started saying all these sweet things of him and i then she told me its thhis guy from N.Y. and i live in L.A. I TOLD HER I HOPE EVRYTHING WORLS OUT WITH U TWO and u guys are great i didnt talk to her since (2days)
is she doing it to make me jelouse?
is she doing it to get more attention?
should i continue talking to her and what type of way should i talk to her in?
whats going through her mind?
did she really finnd a guy so fast in a couple days or less?

Answer 1

i think you need to forget about her and go get and education. Your sentence structure is really horrible!

Answer 2

Your mind is creating too much chaos for you. You need to stop justifying and finding reasons why she is acting this way or that way. You can only work on what you know and what you have which is - YOU.

All your actions towards her is done through an expectation of a relationship that you want with her. You made her feel good, made her laugh - did you do this to merely make her happy or do it for yourself so you can get the relationship that you want with her?

Is she doing it to make you jealous?

No one can answer that except her. We can't make the assumptions for you on a person who we do not have any knowledge of. If you want to know the answer to this question, you have to ask her. However, in saying this, you are only wanting to ask anybody else but her because you want the answer to be "yes" to give yourself the encouragement to continue pursuing her. Either that, or you want to continue the delusion that all her actions is all about you. If you want the real answer, ask her. Otherwise, you will only get an answer from others who have no clue what her motives are (if any).

Is she doing it to get more attention?

Honey, you ARE giving her attention. The problem is that YOU want to give her more attention. The reality of you not being able to give her the attention that YOU want to give her is really the issue here. YOU want the attention, not her.

Should you continue talking to her and what type of way should you talk to her?

Again, it's you who wants the attention from her. Not talking to her will only cause grief for yourself. I mean, really, what do you like? The girl or the idea of the relationship with her? If you like the girl for who and what she is, it doesn't matter what type of relationship you have with her. If you only care about the relationship, then move on. It doesn't seem to matter, anyway, which girl you end up with as long as you have the relationship.

What's going through her mind?

How the heck would any of us know?

Did she reallly find a guy so fast in a couple of days or less?

Man, anything is possible in life. You are only doubting and want to doubt because it is easier than accepting the truth, which is her liking somebody else.

If you really want to find the answers, talk to her. Tell her about your feelings. What's the worse thing that can happen? You get rejected? You are feeling that way now, anyway, so you may as well find if your feeliings are true. Who knows, by telling her how you feel, she may recognise a better man in you than the one in New York.

But don't rely on a hope. Rely on a truth. Just get to the truth and move on, with or without her.

Answer 3

Well it really depends... where does she live? Is she doing a long distance thing? Or are you trying to with her? I have come to find out that guys usually think more of their "girl-friends" than girls do of their "guy-friends". I don't think she's trying to make you jealous... she probably just thinks you're friends. If you have feelings for her, maybe you should just put them out there and let her know whats up. Maybe she doesn't have clue. Once you tell her, she might realize how much she's been missing out on with you, and what the two of you could have and go for it... Good luck!

Answer 4

Wow seriously i think that it would be best if u get a psychiatrist session or something, not to be rude. It might cost a Little bit money (varying on where you go) but you will get man honest real awnser.

Answer 5

Its possible she has especially if you havent been giving/paying attention. Anyone can make a lonely person, feel good and laugh, if you really want her, tell her otherwise you might just loose her, if you havent already. Good Luck.

Answer 6

You should start talking to her like before. If she starts talking about him, and she is saying one thing, then the next day, she is saying another. Then chill, she is just wanting your attention AND you to be jealouse and come to lick her shoes. But if her talking does make sense, then start packing your bags cause she just used you to recover.

Answer 7

Just ask her. If she is playing games you don't want them to continue if you really like her and possibly want a relationship with her. If you are honest things should work themselves out.

Answer 8

The guy probably gave her what she missed the most with you.
It won't last but ask yourself if your timming is at the same pace as hers... to get back together.

Hugs,
V.

Answer 9

yeah she wants your attention..try not talking to her for a while so she can be the one to talk to you and not think you are like in love with her or something. (not saying that you are, but girls think that way)

Answer 10

Dear oh dear, let it be. theres an old saying... if you love something set it free. If it comes back it is yours if it dosent, it never was. Either that, or Just ask her!!!!