I met my boyfriend on the chat line which i the telephone instead of the internet and I have seen him and I send pictures and he sends me some and we have a real good relationship and I just want to know what is a good reason because the reason that I can't go to his house is becasue my parents don't know that I am going to sacramento to see him and they don't like him so I am wondering what is a god way to get to him and dont have any money or what is a good lie to tell him because he is getting really impatient with me and I don;t blame hi becasue I love him and he loves me too so somebody help me please
2007-02-01 14:35:47 · 4 answers · asked by not a user 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off.. honesty is the best policy.. If you're thinking about lying to him, then you already have started off on the wrong foot. Second, if he's so into you that he's become impatient and wants to see you so bad, why doesn't HE make an effort to go see you? I've dealt with men who just like taking taking and taking but never give anything back. Now, I'm not saying all men are like this, but you have a few here and there.
My advice would be to set the cards straight on the table and let him know the situation, if he's really into you he will find a way to work things out.. Trust me here, if you really want something you won't settle for less, you'll try everything and anything to get it, so if he's genuine he'll find a way to fix this. Don't lie to him, it will only make things worse if you do.
2007-02-01 14:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well whatever you do dont lie cause then you will have to tell another lie to cover that one up and you will get caught. Its appears that you both are young and sometimes parents know best. Just tell him that you are trying to be able to come see him, but that you dont have the funds right now and that you are trying to still convince your parents to let you meet him. Or see if he would come to you, if he "loves" you I am sure that he would... maybe you can meet half way, and have your parents with you.... Just remember parents are probably scared for you because of all the things that are going on on the net here lately. Ever think bout that? How much do you really know bout him? Think bout it
your parents could be right...
2007-02-01 14:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by unforseenfantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't he come instead? does he have money to find a hotel or somthing like that in your city? doesn't he know anybody except from you?
By the way be very careful with "chat" boyfriends... maybe there's a very good reason why your parents don't like him... Have you tried to discuss that with them?
2007-02-01 14:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by lilstrawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT YOU MOVE.
If he wants you he'll come see you. Don't go making it easy for a man, its the kiss of death.
2007-02-01 14:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋