my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years and i just found out that he broke up with his girlfriend and i am totally interested in him. what i mean is that i am in love with my boyfriends best friend. what should i do? can somebody please help me!!!!????
2007-02-01 14:19:50 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow....what should you do ask yourself how would you feel if the roll was reversed. How can you be in a relationship with someone and say you love them for 2 years and then just because you find out that their friend...no best friend is single again you are ready for the best friend.......This is what you should do go tell your boyfriend that you are in love with his best friend and then see what happens......
2007-02-01 14:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that before you make a decision like that, you need to make sure that you are really in LOVE with him. And not just infatuated with his looks/personality. Not only are you going to have to face your current boyfriend if you decide to make a move on his friend... but so is the best friend. And I don't think that lust/a fling/ you just wanting to have sex with him is worth breaking up a friendship. My sister slept with my ex and it hurt like hell. I no longer respect her, nor consider her my sister. I don't even SPEAK to her when I see her. Now if a man can come between sisters like that, then just imagine what a WOMAN can do to men. I think you should just leave it alone unless you know that there is something there and that you and him may have a future that may lead to marriage. Because if you and the friend don't work out... you can't go back to the ex... and you always going to be considered a 'hoe' among them... and maybe even their other friends.
2007-02-01 14:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Bee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm only 12 years old, but i would go 4 it. First, check out this new guy. Look for love signs. If you are confisent get going. If u are sure, dump this guy u don't like anymore. Tell him the truth, that it's not working out. That tou just need a break. GO with the new guy and see how it works.
2007-02-01 14:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by KingofNYC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly decide that can u leave ur bfrnd wo't u think about him even once ,how can u break a relationship 2 make another but if uve stopped liking ur present boyfriend noone can tell u 2 contin ue with it go and talk to ur bfrnd's best frnd u don't have another choice but b4 doing anything talk 2 ur boyfrnd.bye
2007-02-01 14:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by mini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not mature enough to be in a relationship. That's what it comes down to. How can you just say that you're in love with your boyfriend's best friend? I'm sure you probably already thought about cheating on your boyfriend, haven't you? You give girls a bad name.
2007-02-01 14:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by lover4ne1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to make up your mind, because you will crush your boyfriend and his best friend may not even like you...you should break up with your boyfriend because your already emotionally cheating on him by being in love with someone else, and he doesn't deserve that...and about his best friend, the honest truth, he may not even go for you since you did his boy wrong...
2007-02-01 14:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by dearfriend44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t do it. You are only going to cause more trouble than you can ever imagine. Your best to be honest with all should you go astray. You do realize that you will now be known as the girl who came between friends. BAD KARMA!
2007-02-01 14:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL!!!! oooohhhh.... do you really love your boyfriends best or do you love your boyfriend? but if you love your b's best friend more i would break up with your BF and go ouy with B's best friend.(hey but dose the best friend love you)?well gtg problems of my own.bye
2007-02-01 14:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but if they live by the rules and you say something to him you wont be dating either so if you like fights go for it and get some Tylenol
2007-02-01 14:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by jeremy j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference between love and lust.Sex is not love
2007-02-01 14:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋