i feel so dumb, will you help me?

Question

Currently, I am a college student, but for 3 years, I feel that I m just fooling myself. i know nothing about technology, and the sad part was that I was supposed to learn it. maybe I was not interested at all. I dunno. and yeah, before I forgot, I’m also into day dreaming—like to the extent that I would stay in bed for hours just pretending to be somebody else. And did I mention also that I have no FRIENDS. My family is not supportive as well

Answer 1

Einstein was into daydreaming as well.

You may be losing confidence. but not dumb.

you are losing confidence because you are doing the things that don't match you.

Think of what you want, and just do it. don't think of somebody else doing it, you do it.

Answer 2

I would have to know more details but it sounds to me like you may have a problem with depression that leaves unable to put your mind into what your are doing and leaving feeling like you could just stay in bed and dream of something better. You should see a doctor. There are so many new drug therapies out there that have less side effects than the past ones. It could really make a difference in your life or maybe it is just fate tellling you that you need to find your real passion and start fresh.

Answer 3

You are SOMEBODY! God loves you and made you just the way you are!! Begin to take subjects you enjoy. See if you can get into a counseling program for help which most colleges offer for their students. Find out who you are and where you are headed. Don't take subjects to please someone else. Change majors if you have too. You have got to please yourself. You are suffering from depression which might need medical treatment so visit a doctor. Find a web site where you can meet friends if you haven't found any at school. I suggest Positive Thoughts. com.
Try an art class to bring you out of your pit. I will be looking forward to you joining us on PT. Best wishes!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

You don't sound dumb. You do sound depressed. I would strongly suggest talking with a doctor; your isolation, your tendency to sleep for extended periods of time, and your daydreaming are all "escapist" behaviors that point to a bigger problem. You might also consider counseling; a good psychologist can be enormously helpful in dealing with depression and its underlying causes.

Most colleges and universities have student counseling services that you can use for little or no cost; calling them for an appointment, and KEEPING the appointment, might be an easy first step to take.

Good luck!!!

Answer 5

get yourself some hobbies that involve other people. instead of dreaming about being other people, go out and actually act like other people. i know this might sound band because you are supposed to "just be yourself" but sometimes, you gotta shock that part of yourself into gear. I was the shyest person ever so I pretended not to be and then I found out that it isn't as hard as I thought it is to make friends. so get yourself a hobby (you don't have to be good at it) and go out of your way to make friends (be the first to say hi and start conversation). does this make sense?

Answer 6

maybe you're doing something you dont have a passion for. try to find what your passion is and stick to it. Sometimes we follow other carreers and dreams that belong to other people other than ourselves.....but we feel it's the "right" thing to do. It's never too late to fix it :D

Answer 7

wake up quit dreaming and start living man i wish i could go to school.have you tried makin friends?drink some coffee wake up the world needs u to do something...anything at least try cant hurt

Answer 8

You simply have to get the energy to find what interests you and go for it. everything else will fall into place when you make yourself happy.

Answer 9

You need to talk to your school counselor.