Okay so i am in need of help. A boy and i have been getting to know eachother a lot more, but everynight he tells me sexual thing that he wants to do with me. I dont think now is the the time to do anything, but i still like him...What should I do??
2007-02-01 14:05:46 · 48 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget about him, it sounds like the only thing he wants to do is get in ur pants, and once he does, u'll never see him again
2007-02-09 13:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by coolpotatoeslive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop thinking with the wrong head. If he is just saying romantic compliments, it can be nice. If he is suggesting you do certain acts he could just want to get in your pants, and if you really like him you will get hurt. BE CAREFUL!! There are millions of slutty men out there willing to say whatever it takes to get in a girl's pants. BE STRONG!! Get to know what you want to happen next, if it feels right and you think he's a good guy then go for it, sex can be a good thing. You sound unsure right know so I suggest you don't do anything yet except maybe for some innocent kissing. If the guy decides not to talk to you anymore because you won't give up the goods, then tell him not to hit himself with the door on the way out. There are millions of men out there, be picky, your allowed to be. There is no need to settle, the more men you get to know the better, you choose, don't let them choose you.
Sex can be dangerous with the wrong person so always wrap it up, some people turn out to be different from what you thought. Good Luck
2007-02-01 14:20:56 · answer #2 · answered by Webby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's after one thing only. Let him know that you're not ready to get into that with him at this point and see what happens. Even though you like him, if he takes off after finding out that you're not ready to have sex with him then he's not worth your time. Don't just give in because it's what he wants either. You'll get used and tossed to the side,.. and then you'll have that to think about. I'm not sure if he's really the type for a long-term relationship or a meaningful relationship by the sounds of it, but if you're in your teens then who cares. This is the time to have fun. Just do it safely!!!!!
Let him know how you feel,.. he'll lay of if he really cares, if he doesn't care then he'll take off. Either way, it's better on you.
2007-02-01 14:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Justin W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are lucky, his lack of tact is letting you know what he is after. What you need to know is if sex is all he wants. Does he tell you that he loves you? Does he even say that he likes you or that you are pretty? If he is talking to you like you are nothing more than a sexual encounter then he will not be around long if you satisfy his urge for pleasure. He has to mature to the point where a girl is more than a piece of meat to him. Good Luck.
2007-02-01 14:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by teentitanliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me just get to the point if you are not ready don't do anything that you might regret later. And if this guy really likes you like he says then he will respect your decision and wait to the time is right for you and him.
2007-02-09 14:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you just have to be honest with him. Tell him you are not ready to do this, and ask him to stop pressuring you about it.
If it costs you the relationship because that's all he wants, you will know that he was not the one for you.
If not, and he is prepared to be patient, then you know he's the kind of guy you'll really want to spend time with.
Good luck!
2007-02-01 14:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by belmyst 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him exactly what you said in your question -which is that you're not ready 4 sexual relations & want to take it slower. if he genuinely likes you, he wont push you & he'll also stick around, but if he only wants the sex, he'll get mad & eventually stop talking to you or ignoring you. when he does this, dont worry about it. it just means that if you had sex w/ him, he would have done the saaame thing anyway.
2007-02-01 14:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont feel comfortable doing anything you should let him know. Let him know how you feel about him but make sure he knows where you draw the line and when you feel comfortable about doing those things they'll happen. DONT FALL FOR THE "IF YOU LIKE/LOVE ME YOU'LL DO IT" bull crap either, take it slow its the best way to go.
2007-02-01 14:12:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel that the time is right then it's not. If you end up doing it you might find that that's all this boy wants. You're too young and you should wait for someone that respects you!
2007-02-01 14:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you have answered your own question, dont do anything, you seem to be younger, so wait as long as you can before doing anything sexual. it is not worth it these days, i just seen a 12 year old with a newborn baby. dont rush
2007-02-01 14:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by ema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please please do not do anything sexual with him. You will regret it. Just because you like a guy does not mean that you have to let him do things that he wants to you. Respect yourself first. Tell him straight out that now is not the time. Your not ready and you will not be ready any time soon. He will respect your decision, even he acts like he doesnt.
2007-02-01 14:13:50 · answer #11 · answered by monica your new bff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋