2007-02-01 13:59:33 · 21 answers · asked by Carlee M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let love find you baby
2007-02-01 14:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let love find you. If you have been bfless for so long, putting an extra effort to find one mind come off as desperate. And desperate is not a good look especially when you're trying to attract the attract worthy guys. So keep a look out for love; but dont try too hard.
Good luck!
2007-02-01 22:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are shy, it may take a while to let love find you. I would suggest joining some clubs that are coed if you are in school. If you are out of school try volunteering, perhaps for a political party if that interests you.
Try to break through your shyness with normal activities. If you are 16, you should get a job that forces you to interact with people. Good luck!
2007-02-01 22:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by Contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys bring nothing but trouble! dont go looking for a relationship, just sit back and go out with the girls, and let the hotties come to you...play hard to get, get a sexier wardrob, and give the boys a hardtime, be a bad ***, and concentrate on YOU and YOUR life.... sometimes a little change will boost up your confidence, so that if there ever was a hot guy you wanted to talk to, your self esteem would be greater, so you'd approach him... its ok to be shy...alot of women are... i am, insanely shy when it comes to guys... but in the end, it all somehow seems to work out nicely.
good luck hun! :)
2007-02-01 22:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you'll have to report to the battlefield. Go where the boys are. Then it's time to make friends. Male/female friendships turn to love, but must start with friendship. So you must thus treat males like friends to start with. Assume that they're human, and treat them as you'd like to be treated.
Past that, you're on your own, but: stay away from jerks. This means guys who are verbally abusive or just impolite. Un-cool as it might seem to a girl--and especially her friends--a shy guy who knows nothing and is as afraid as you are may be worthy of your attention.
Good luck.
2007-02-01 22:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by 2n2222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all why are you letting a guy define your happiness?? I have always believes that love will come when you least expect it and when you are not looking for it...men are attracted to women that don't depend on a man for happiness, they like to see a woman who is independent and once you find that men will find you
2007-02-01 22:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by dearfriend44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get tired looking for love but the best thing you will do just wait for the right person to come in your life so that you will happy for the rest of your life and not wasting your time for someone else who doesn't deserve for your love.just wait and you will fee lthe magic of love.
2007-02-01 22:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by kickers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a dance class. Salsa is a popular one that everybody wants to learn. You can dance with different guys during class and get of sense of whom you feel comfortable with. If you really like a guy as him to dance with you during the practice sessions. Ask indirect questions to drop the hint that you like him i.e. "What kinda girls do you like", or do you have a girlfriend? If he's got the slightest amount of brain, he'll know you like him and ask for your numer, or invite you out
2007-02-01 22:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by Don Ricardo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you don't need a guy for happiness. You have friends and family and yourself to make you happy.. and i didn't have a bf til about 2 weeks ago... he kinda found me.. we met at church and he got my # and we hung out for like 2 months and ended up spending all our free time together and he just asked me a few weeks ago! If u don't find it it will find you... Pray about it.. Let God guide you
2007-02-01 22:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let love find you. one day you will come across a guy that you automatically click with. you will know he's the one. You will find that you won't be as shy with him and things will just flow. good luck.
2007-02-01 22:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by D. Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋