So a guy you find TOTALLY unattractive likes you. Do you think it's cute, awkward, or do you not care about the situation?
I overheard this one guy tell his friend that he likes me. I wish I never heard it. Every time I see that guy, I feel sick. Luckily he has never talked to me since a few weeks after I overheard his conversation. (It was time to change semesters and my scedule was altered.) When I pass him in the hallways(which is almost everyday), I feel his eyes on me! I even go a different way so I don't run into him!
I feel bad doing this. What do you do when someone you DON'T like, likes you?
2007-02-01 13:49:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't do anything. The more you avoid him or talk about this situation the more attention you bring to it. I once had a friend that liked me and even though I had never thought of him in any other way once I knew he liked me I was a mess. I avoided him at all costs - we worked for the same company. Anyway the more I avoided him and felt uncomfortable around him the more other people we worked with noticed - which of course brought more attention to the awkwardness and dragged things out with people talking etc.
I think it's best just to be yourself not act as if it is on your mind or bothering you. The less you make of it the less will become of it. However, if he does approach you with his feelings be honest - but kind. I did get approached he professed his feelings - flowers and all and even though I felt like a jerk I was honest about the fact that even though we were friendly I just didn't like him in that way. It was a very short time before that was behind us and everything was fine. Now it's been a few years and even though we're not best friends we do still keep in touch - mostly by computer.
2007-02-01 14:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by H I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its okay to not like a person but don't be mean about it and try not to make it obvious. If the shoe was on the other foot and a guy you really like treated you like that...how would you feel? If you talk to him you might notice that he's a really nice guy so just try to open minded.
2007-02-01 13:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by step b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i avoid them or just tell his friends smartly that you have someone else so that it will get back to him. Or you can face the music and if he approaches you tell him the truth in a gentle way. donot kill him emotionally because the tables might turn someday. You know he likes you, so practise how you are going to turn him down without hurting his feelings
2007-02-01 13:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by Alise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just feel good that someone does like you lol you're doing the right thing by not leading him on even though he likes you and would totally go for it. i would just continue to ignore him, but dont go to drastic measures. just dont look at him in the hall, and when you feel him looking at you, act like you dont even notice. just act like he's not there.
now watch, some poor boy is going to be asking yahoo questions about why this girl he likes wont even look at him in the halls and he's going to be wanted advice on how to approach you, ha jk. good luck.
2007-02-01 13:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by missy_t_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where a Tee shirt saying " Im Too Good For You, So Stop Looking At Me" or one that says "I Dont Date Ugly People" or "In your dreams (ugly guys same here)."
2007-02-01 13:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jay-V-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...I've never been on a date, but ironically I know alot about this sorta thing. If his presence creeps you out alot, or you find him hard to look at, you should either get to know him alot better and tell him you're not interested, or tell him to get a new look. Or both, depending on how repulsive he looks.
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2007-02-01 13:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by SquigglyChicken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try not to feel sick about it. I don't know why you would feel sick. I mean so you might not be attracted to him but just as you can't help but not be attracted to him, maybe he can't help but be attracted to you. You don't have to do anything unless he asks you out. So he admires you from afar...where's the harm in that, really?
2007-02-01 13:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by Jade D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant help someones feelings, if they havent confronted you, then you should not have anything to worry about. if he does, just let him know you are not interested, and say thank you for being honest about his feelings. maybe you could be friends, you never know, he could be a nice guy
2007-02-01 13:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by ema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unattractive guys have a right to like pretty girls like u :)
this best ting to do is not avoid him.......talk to him when he make the approache and let him know u r not interested in him
even if u don't like him he could still be a friend..............u never know.........u might need his help in the future
2007-02-01 13:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by jahblez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be nice to him, be flattered not insulted. If he tries to pursue you politely tell him you're not interested. You never know, you and this guy could be really great friends.
2007-02-01 13:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋