is it ok for the girl to be taller than the boy?

Question

i am pretty tall and there is not much guys that are taller than me. for some people it seems kinda weird. what do u think?

Answer 1

It's natural for the man to take on the masculine role and this may include physical appearances such as greater height, physique, and other features.

For some people it might seem weird for the girl to be taller and some guys may feel intimidated or feel uncomfortable being the shorter one in the relationship...but as long as you both feel comfortable with the differences in height and he is willing to stand on his tippy toes to give you a kiss I think it's alright : )

If you like a guy that's shorter than you don't let other peoples opinion influence you. If you're bothered by the height difference you can also avoid wearing high heels to make the height factor a little less noticable.

Answer 2

I take pride in my height... I am 5"10 and when I was in jr. high and high school, I was taller than ALL the guys...i mean EVERY SINGLE GUY in my grade! i thought it was embarrasing, but the thing i quickly learned, that for every tall girl, somewhere out there, lies a TALLER guy! lol I think that if theres a guy you like and he is shorter than you, just go for it...people will talk no matter what...at the end of the day, this guy could make YOU happy...who cares about everyone else...now, if theres not a guy you like, but your just worried about never finding a guy your height or taller, sweetheart, i wouldnt worry at all!!!! THIS I PROMISE YOU...you will sooooooo find a guy your height or taller... you sounded like me 5 yrs ago! lol and my husband is exactly 2 inches taller...

be proud of you.... you are one of a kind...and besides, you know out there, there are girls who look at you and think, "damn, i wish i had HER height...instead of being a shorty little shortie"...

:) smileeeee

Answer 3

If it's not a problem for the guy, don't sweat it. Wouldn't it be awful to pass up the perfect guy for you just because he is shorter?

It is a problem for a lot of women, but a lot of women are idiots and ignore really great guys who just happen to be shorter than they are.

The only thing that matters is compatibility. Does he make you laugh? Do you enjoy being with each other? Does he bring out the best in you? These are the only things you need to think about.

Answer 4

Unfortunately, some guys' egos get deflated or...something (I still don't understand guys)...they feel less like men if they aren't the taller person in the relationship. A man that is confident in himself won't care. He'll care for you no matter your height.

Answer 5

i think , you should only be worried about how your heart works and how you conduct your life. the most vital aspect in a person's life is to see the way they conducted their life. look at all famous people, they are spoken much abt their talents then their height or weight, which carried very less weight indeed. be positive, and let nature takes it course. i'm sure you're a preety young lady who needs to see the beauty within u then to look at the external. tc and god bless

Answer 6

I'm 6'0" female, and guys with enough confident to date a girl taller than them tend to be better bfs.

Answer 7

Let others think it's weird. I'd say it's just fine. If you and the guy you're with are happy, that's all that really matters...not what everyone else thinks.

Answer 8

If your hung up on how tall you are then you will focus on that and not what is important which is how you feel about the other person

Answer 9

Sure, but you both should be confident...it shouldn't be a reason for it to be awkward between you too.

Good luck! ;-)

Btw, what's the height difference...their growth spurts are probably just late

Answer 10

Its ok for you to date a shorter dude, aint nothin wrong with that, i dated someone shorter than me and i was fine with it