Ok, so many of you tell me im not in love.
So show me.
Tell me what true love is and then I will decide for myself if I am indeed in love or not.
[thanks]
2007-02-01 13:28:35 · 9 answers · asked by [undercover dinosaur] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will know when you get older.
Give it a rest
2007-02-01 13:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you care about someone enough to consider them a mate, your body may release chemicals. These, the "love chemicals", are very similar to the ones found in high levels in people with obsessive-compulsive disorder. In turn, a person becomes obsessive over the other person. In humans, this chemical will usually concentrate you on one person for around 5 years- enough to sufficiently raise a child.
It's much more difficult, but in certain instances, the body will then release the chemical that causes long-term love. This chemical causes more of a steady, rational interest in someone.
Sorry to take all the romance out of it. Hard to believe I'm a romantic, I know!
2007-02-01 21:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rey Gamberro Salvador 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweetheart:The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” (1 Corinthians 13:4-6,7). Next, How do you find True love like that of a Soul Mate? Think about my five biblical principles for finding your soul mate: Ask yourself:
1. Does he/she love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does he/she honor you? Will he/she do things just to make you happy? Will he/she try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust him/her to the fullest? He/She is your best friend and you are his or hers? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? He/She understands you like he or she could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process.God Bless!
2007-02-01 21:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think about him or her all the time? how do you feel when ur with him, happy ( cause that's not strong enough)? can you be urself around him? do you tell him everything? would you sarcrafice your life for his? When you go to sleep, do you think about him and what's he doing, hopefully thinking about you? what's his favorite band? what's so special about him that makes you love him? is he the hottest guy/cutest guy you've ever meet?
2007-02-01 21:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love my girlfriend so much I do anything for her, surprise her, take care of her when she is down, treat every day like it is our first date. Always trying new things keep us going.
2007-02-01 21:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by danielschmidt94521 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what love feels like to you.
2007-02-01 21:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different for everybody...figure it out for yourself.
2007-02-01 21:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt exist anymore. everyone throws the word around so much, its lost its meaning.
besides, idk what ur situation is. u never said anything.
2007-02-01 21:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by Food For Thought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-01 21:31:24 · answer #9 · answered by Nati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋