he is giving me a ring for valentines day(as I was told)
I think that I like him but I am not sure if I am making myself like him+ he is shorter than me and I have this thing with guys being shorter than me.
2007-02-01 13:03:28 · 14 answers · asked by neli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't lead him on then. It's not fair to him. Let him know now how shallow you are.
2007-02-01 13:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Miss Nervous..... I no what your going through. And if you do get the ring (as you were told) well ask someone to give it back to him if you don't like him. I'm probably like you I have a problem with guys being short . Well...you got to give this time, see what happens don't make your move right away let the guy make the move first if you have msn he will probably ask question answer them wisely..So if this doesn't work out keep trying boys don't keep things bottled in trust me on this one...And if this guy does well hes sorta different ...hope you get what you what you want miss nervous.
2007-02-01 21:25:44 · answer #2 · answered by lollypopstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you do have a thing for guys shorter than you. That is your own personal physical preference. I can't get on your case about that, I have my own biases against men. Do you like him. You say you think you do? What is it that your questioning yourself about. I think his height is inconsequential for how he makes you feel. I personally think you should stay in the relationship untill you definitely know that you guys are emotionaly, personally or romantically incompatable.
2007-02-01 21:07:15 · answer #3 · answered by Namaste 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be worse to lead him on pretending that you like him when you don't. That's also called 'lying' and it's not a good idea.
Casually tell him that you're happy being just friends, and you don't want to ruin your friendship by taking it to the next level.
2007-02-01 21:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha well him being shorter than you isn't the end of the world! :p
just take it slow, maybe go out as friends and talk more, and see where it goes from there. good luck :)
2007-02-01 21:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest in a nice way and being a friend isn't a poor choice either.
2007-02-01 21:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by Reggie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while before you make a decision.You might grow to love him eventually.What does height have to do with it anyway?
2007-02-01 21:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by shel_lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For someone who is so nervous you seem pretty particular about who you date?? Maybe you are not so nervous but more conceited and you think you are to good for Mr. Shorty.
2007-02-01 21:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
search ur heart and decide firmly if u like him or not
if u decide u don't like him tell him be4 he goes and buys that ring becos he will really be crushed and hate u for that
2007-02-01 21:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by jahblez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 1 never lead him on i think that hurts even more than just saying i dont like you trust me anyway just try not to stay away from him exactly but dont talk to him alot it will pass and if it works out you are going to like him and he wont like you that is just how life iz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-01 21:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by advice_from_me_2_u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋