I really thought my g/f loved me but events on a recent holiday have left me unsure.
We were due to return from a holiday in Peru and i had two condoms stuffed with cocaine, one for each of us to swallow and smuggle home. She outright refused and i had to leave her cocaine condom behind.
Never in my life have i felt so betrayed by a woman who supposedly "loves me".
Everytime i see her face i cant help think of the quality gear we left behind us. I feel so betrayed and i am not sure i will ever learn to forgive her.
Should i just end it now and spare myself the future heartache that is inevitable with a woman who has no grasp of what it is to TRULY love her man?
2007-02-01 12:57:01 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U will end up in jail or dead.
2007-02-08 00:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts. You can't be serious. How can any man rationalize that his g/f betrayed him by not wanting to commit a crime for him. Everything you wrote made me disgusted. You are a loser and probably have an angle by your side and do not even appreciate her.. You probably brought her on Holiday with you with the intention of helping you bring back those stupid drugs. I am sure it was for no other reason but that and She probably had no clue what you up to. I am so glad she refused so.. I am sure she was not even aware what you were up to and planning for her. If she refused you there, she would have refused you here if she knew.. It would have been awful for you right, you would have lost your "Crime Help". So you brought her along making her believe you were taking her on vaction when all along you had her there for your own selfish reason. Poor Child. Imagine how she must feel, she must feel tremenously betrayed by you.. and you come here saying you feel she betrayed you.. Disgusting..You betrayed her. Got it.. You betrated her.. You probably brought this person because she told you she loves you and that to you was like a gold-mine, if she loved you she would do anything for you.. like commit a crime.. Boy, you are a fool..and I pray you go get some help. You need help..If you want to do something decent in your life give the girl a break and leave her in peace away from your destruction.
If you leave her it might be the best thing you have done in your entire life.. give the girl a break. Let her fine a decent man that will love her truly for herself not some stupid cocaine..
2007-02-01 13:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sir first of all i would like to know what your age is . If u r a kid then taking all that cocain and con........ was a very shameless thing u did because this is your age to think about ur carrer ur bright future u must b thinking that what is wrong in this every one does this in our country , this is the difference between u foreigners and we Indians we know what to do and when to do now if v r kids v would never do such things v give first priority to our carrer. Suppose my aim is to become a doctor , I shall not be able to see anything except my ultimate goal . This is the reason why u all r lagging behind in such a tough competition with us (Indians) . so just forget her and look after ur carrer . U must not think of anything else untill u achieve your goal ( aim)
and now if u r an adult so pls forgive her because she refused just to not to smuggle cocain she did not refuse u . LOve does not see cast ,creed , refusal or anything . If u really love her u will not be able to live without her if u think so pls forgive her what is the blunder she did? i dont think its such a blunder .and pls dont use the word" betrayal" for her a person is betreyal only when he /she plays withs ur immotions or really hurts u what has she done i dont think such a big mistake is that . love and freindship will never b gained again once u refuse it your love is like a glass piece , once broken cannot be made as before once again if however the broken pieces r pasted again cracks appear on it . so never let your love be less for her otherwise cracks may appear on it.
CHEER UP MAN
2007-02-01 16:42:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously I would not continue this relationship; get out. He will drag you down and probably cheat on you again. He obviously was not a committed Christian to begin with. You do need to forgive even if you do not stay together, and believe God in faith that you have forgiven him because at first you are not going to feel it. It is a healing process and takes time, but you have to push through with God until you know you have forgiven. And you do need to move on with your life, but do not get involved in another relationship until you know deep in your heart you do forgive him. You will take that anger and hurt into your next relationship if it's too soon. I dated too soon after what my ex husband did and I've had problems with both men I have dated as a result of it. I am not ready to date yet, let alone get married.
2016-05-24 03:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is one of the most selfish questions I have ever read.
I'm supposing you didn't swallow both in case they burst.
If I was your g/f I would have already left you for not just asking but expecting me to risk our future together over drugs.
You seem really annoyed and hurt by this. I'm glad she refused you. What are you gonna pressure her to do next? If she says no to sex or working the streets for you are you gonna threaten to dump her and question her love for you? How mad are you gonna get if she says no again?
Get help!
Dont smugle or take drugs, they poison lives and minds xxxx
2007-02-01 15:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by vanessa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should dump your stooped *** and told the cops when she got home so you owe her a favor for not telling on you My ex wife got on that crap now shes no more then a whore looking for her victim to get money from to buy the crap .The guy that started her on the crap doesn't do anything but run when he see,s me because he knows I'm going to kick the **** out of him
Your not even worth talking to looser Bring your crap around here ill show you what to do with it Looser. People like you need to burn
I hope they catch you soon and they put you in prison and you get butt fucked every day
Sorry for my language people but this little pimple faced *** needs no sympathy
2007-02-09 12:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people will say anything to get a response. I know this is a load of bull because anyone who knows the "true" meaning of love would have been embarrassed to even TELL that story.
GET A CLUE !!
2007-02-09 07:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by chelko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU. FEEL. B*E*T*R*A*Y*E*D????????????? god you are SUCH a bloody GIT. for just 10 seconds put yourself in her place. hello??? she might have different beliefs about drugs, or maybe she just wants to stay on the LEGAL side of things. hmmm ever thought of that????? she's probably beating herself up right now because she thought that she understood you but u turned out to be a SUPERFICIAL IDIOT who thinks that if theyre gf doesnt do drugs with them then she doesnt love them. well HELL of COURSE she's gonna be f*cking pissed at you for trying to pressure her into something. if anyone it should be HER whos feeling betrayed. she does not deserve a wanker like you. bugger off.
2007-02-01 15:17:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truly loving your man is not about smuggling illegal drugs, what if you get caught? I am sure that is what she was afraid of. How are you suppose to be together in jail??? I think what she did was right and had no intention of hurting your feelings. Don't take it so personal, if you really love her, you might not realise what you have till its gone.
2007-02-01 13:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You carry on how your going and you will get plenty of true love in jail what if u had made her do it and the condom burst killing her? I agree u should end it and spend the rest of your junkie days alone
2007-02-01 13:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that is love you deserve a broken heart, who the hell do you think you are to even ask a woman to think about something like that, if that's you life you need to keep searching for a woman that will let you get away with it, if shows she is more of a man than you will ever be,, you need to grow up BOY,,, get real in your life????????????,,, if your life revolves around drugs you need to stop and think about you and not her,, i hope this helps and brings you around ,,, good luck.
2007-02-01 13:10:39 · answer #11 · answered by Lumper35 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋