im 16 n a vrigin n one of my best friends is a girl n were really good friends n shes 17 not a virgin n im not an *** like most guys just havent found the right 1 yet prolly cause most of the girls in r town get around n i def dont wana wait tilll im married i want to lose it now and she knows how much i want to get laid n shes cool with it n want to help me find som1 n its not like im 1 of thouse guys who just wants to screw every hot chick but i was talkin to her last night sayin how im never gona get laid cause i dont want to have sex with a **** so i was talking to her n i asked her about me n her if she would ever have sex with me n she idk maby i wouldnt want to ruin our friendship n i said we wouldnt n i told her id rather lost it to her then some girl im just gona break up with n get my heart broken with n she understood n shes goin to collage n said maby as a going away present we will...... do u think that was wrong n what should i do n any advice u have thanks alot
2007-02-01 12:48:54 · 5 answers · asked by imaproracer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes it is wrong
there is nuthing wrong with being a virgin honey
i find it very attractive
u dont need to have sex with her because i promise u ur relationship will indeed change. Sex changes everything and ull probably ruin ur friendship honey
if u must have sex ...get a girl friend dont go and put ur friend in that situation thats not kewl
2007-02-01 12:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you should wait as long as you can. This is something very personal for your first time and with the first person. I can understand you wanting it to be with someone your comfortable with but your friend is right..this may ruin your friendship. If you decide to go for it then make sure you both expect the same thing out of this. Your human and at your age your hormones are going wild so no your not wrong to feel this way your just a normal 16 year old boy.
2007-02-01 13:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i knew a guy was a virgin i would most likely get wit him cause atlease i kno he hasnt caught anything... dont look 4 it jus let it come 2 u!
2007-02-01 12:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should wait until ur married...i mean...ur going to regret it later in life...i mean its really up to you but honestly u should wait...r also too young
2007-02-01 12:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not serious are you!?! keep your virginity as long as you can, it's a blessing. girls like to know that they were their bf's first.
2007-02-01 12:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋