my sis is 40 and has 1 kid 17 dose not know who father is any way she never had anythig to do with baby untill he was 5 any way she has like 3 jobs pay is very good but never has money for son or now bills she asked me for some money so i let her borrow 300.00 from me then my mom called and asked y i did it i said y not this b**** just went to my grandfathers how has alzhimers i know i didnt spell it right but she took his mastercard and put 5000.00 doll. on it and told my mom he said it was ok for her to do it just to let you know that same day he also told a salesmen he would buy a 4000.00 water system my sis got mad and almost killed the man for doing this ?????? what would u do ???
2007-02-01 12:47:47 · 7 answers · asked by rradboys 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your question is kind of hard to understand...but I think you mean your sister is a user and doesn't parent her child very well,and is now stealing from your sick grandfather. Number one talk with your mom about your grandpa's credit card thing and see what she thinks. Number two, be there for your nephew as a friend and confidant (just don't talk trash about your sis to him, after all she IS his mother). Number three, cut your sister off, tell her you don't agree with the way she is acting and you are pissed she took advantage of grandpa and until she repays all the money she owes to everyone and apologizes, you don't want to speak to her again.
2007-02-01 12:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Redawg J 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She broke the law. Your mother should call the police and have her arrested. If your grandfather is sick with Alzheimer's, he did not know what he was doing. Your mother should also take control of your grandfathers finances so others cannot take advantage of him. There is a law against what she did. More than likely the court would not put her in jail but they would tell her to pay it back and put her on probation. Don't let her get away with it.
2007-02-01 12:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your sister has broken the law.She used your grandfathers creditcard without proper consent.I suggest you call the police and have her charged with defrauding her grandfathers money.Also your mum needs to apply for power of attorney for your grandfathers money.There is a legal process of signing papers etc .Its not just for this issue of your sister but as he is sick he may get caught out again by strangers.Elderly people can be taken advantage of.
2007-02-01 13:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sounds like your sister is a real winner. I believe that her taking your grandfather's credit card and using it may constitute abuse of an elder and theft. Check with your local police. Good luck.
2007-02-01 12:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by insd92104 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u need to tell her she is way to old to be acting like this and its her fault she is going through money probs no one should give her all that money shell just rely on ev eryone to give her money now!! and they boy is 17 not 12 hell be outa there soon! one year
2007-02-01 12:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down, chill out, get your head together then learn how to spell and how to properly express yourself. Second, you have done well, why? Because venting a very good thing to do.
2007-02-01 13:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Barrie T 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
call the cops
2007-02-01 13:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋