I have a boyfriend who is over for the weekend. Well my friend has never saw him. Well when he comes she gets all flirty!!!!!!!!!!!! And one night the three of us all went to dinner!! While i was eating my food my boyfriend was smileing and giving her little eye contacts!!! They have been flirting and talking and i was just sitting there!! Then the next day i went to work and they were alone... I came and my friend was putting her cloths on and my boyfriend was in the bed but my friend was running out of the room i am supposing!!! Did he cheat on me?? Please i want to know before saturday!!!!!
2007-02-01 12:46:42 · 21 answers · asked by JJcool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a tough question. i dont think anyone can really answer this cause we werent there. if you love him then i would ask him. maybe try talking to your friend. it could just be a misunderstanding and look like an affair, dont jump to conclusions though, that never gets you anywhere but trouble. just try to talk first and dont assume.
2007-02-01 12:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Scott H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, dump him! First your man should not flirt with anyone in front of you. Yes all guys flirt but flirting with your friend in front of you is disrespect and just showing that he don't care what you think because he dont think you'll say anything or do anything. Second they should have not been alone don't care if they just met then someone should had left when you did you don't stay at a house with your girls man you just met and you don't kick it at a place with you girlfriends friend while shes gone. Then her getting dress and you man in bed, I know you are not stupid. She is not you friend and he does not love you. Don't talk to her let them both go, but make sure you kick him to the curve. You can do so much better.
2007-02-01 12:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it doesn't matter if he cheated or not. If your sitting at a table eating and your boyfriend is flirting with your friend, then he doesn't respect you. And the only way to find out the truth is to confront them. Ask your friend in front of your boyfriend and by the response and body language they show you. You'll pretty much know where they stand.
2007-02-01 12:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by catalina r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definitly! all the signs r there and the first time u saw signs of such things like that u supposed to have been let left that creep with her. i know u probably don't want to see it!but u can do much better than someone whos f@@@ing ur friend! shes the one thats making the mistake, when he do her the same way she'll be looking 4 ur friend ship! turn her down u'll never be able to trust her around any one u date!
2007-02-01 12:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that sure is damning evidence! I would confront them both at the same time (kinda sounds like you already did) and see how they react. I'm sure you'll be able to read into them enough to see the truth no matter what they tell you. That's real shi**y of them. I'm sorry. Hopefully it's all just a misunderstanding.
2007-02-01 12:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can "get her to forgive you" if she's gonna forgive you then she will do it on her own time... Also it's not very fair for her to of expected what I assume must of been a 14 year old girl to know what to do in that situation
2016-05-24 03:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fishy to me.
I wouldn't have left them alone together.
She doesn't sound like much of a friend to be openly flirting with him to begin with.
Nor does he sound very respectful of your guys relationship to act that way around the woman he's supposed to be in love with.
2007-02-01 12:51:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure sounds like it to me! also, let me get this straight with you....this girl ISN'T your friend! she is a snake in the grass!
call her and tell her you know (just bluff!) what has happened and tell her she might as well tell you cuz you want to know her side of it and not judge her based on what other people (supposedly your boyfriend) say about her.....
then it is up to you to make your decisions about them...but at least you know the truth.
2007-02-01 12:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunetly yes. If he was true then he wouldnt have been hanging out with only your friend. He woulda found a way to get outta the house
2007-02-01 12:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm yeah ("I came and my friend was putting her cloths on and my boyfriend was in the bed but my friend was running out of the room i am supposing") What the ***** do you think i say yes
2007-02-01 12:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋