I'm going through a really hard time lately. WIth school and family and friends and everything else! But my boyfriend is just making it worse. It's pretty much the same thing every day. He gets mad at me, i yell at him, we say we're sorry, and we make up. But I'm really tired of all this!! He also hates my best guy friend. And every time I talk about my best guy friend he gets all mad and flips out. He also sometimes accuses me of cheating on him. But then later on says he's joking. But my best guy friend and best girlfriend both say that I should break up with him. They both hate his guts. But I really like him and most of the time he's really sweet and I just don't know what to do! Ahhhhhhhh all the stress!
2007-02-01 12:39:09 · 21 answers · asked by PrettieLeah12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is hard when you really like someone to let them go. Before you do anything you need to have a serious conversation with him, don't drift off subject, tell him how you feel, if he cares he will listen and be sensitive to your needs. If not you really need to think about the relationship. But talk to him, maybe he needs that serious conversation with you, does he know what you are really going through? Talk, then think about it.
2007-02-01 12:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello,
Why don't you take some time out?
Time to get your stress level down, appreciate life and all your surrounding around you.
You have to many demands on you right now that is putting a big strain on your life never allow your partner.
Your good friends should do more what a good friend does- Which is listen, without passing judgement calls.
Anyhow just sometime out,and taking time to find yourself will help this bad time .
Good luck
Sandra
2007-02-01 12:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 08:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to stop watching reality programs and big brother they are full on stress and its environmental. people around you do the same and friends . but in sanity of it all you need some peace of mind and chill out from it all. you can do that by changing your own environment by listening to music or going on long walks or maybe take up some sought of sport. good luck and best wishes to you both. do not be too hard on yourself go out there in life and enjoy each day as it comes. the less stress you need the more enjoyable you will give out
2007-02-01 12:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by Elvis 109 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen to you best friends. They will be there for you long after this dude is gone.
Your friends are always more important than some 'boyfriend'. Boys come and go, but friends tend be to be around for the longer term.
Personally, i would get rid of him and find someone who likes you and your friends.
Jealousy = Loser (and probably cheater too) IMHO.
2007-02-01 12:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by darklydrawl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love shouldn't be stressful at any age, but particularly not when you are a teen. Take a break. Tell him you need your space for a while. Too much fighting. Then walk away.
2007-02-01 13:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what they say is if they accuse they are cheating and it sounds like my boyfriend and i have been with him for 8 years tomorrow so i love him alot and i couldnt live without him but i hate the way he acts and sometimes in life that is how a relationship is and friends and boyfreinds never like eachother thats how that works.
2007-02-01 12:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by SADIE R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, inevitably you have to decide for yourself, but my philosophy is if he isn't making your life any better then why be with him? If I am going to be with someone, I think he should make my life easier, not complicate it further! I have a similar issue, but I am getting married in a year. My fiance drives me up the wall and really ticks me off sometimes, but in the long run..him being here with me makes my life better, and easier!!
2007-02-01 12:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by poppycock 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i can see why hes getting mad. the man friend you have. not to cool.man o man. that most guys. don't like that at all. if you have to see your man friend. don't let him know. and please don't talk about him to him. got that.most men don't understand about mail friends. put the shoe on the other foot. see what i mean. i don't think you would like. so cool it and love your man. thanks for the 10 points. for best answer.
2007-02-01 13:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds awfully unstable and insecure. Which is probably why your other friends hate his guts.
Break up with him, and don't date guys like that any more.
2007-02-01 12:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by John D 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋