to see his doctor...I have noticed a change in him myself he's not changing his clothes as often not taking as much pride in his appearance doesn't tidy his flat as much as he use to,his sleeping patterns have changed,but he still comes across as happy and chatty when we talk and I go round for a few bevies now and again....Could you give me some advice as i'm not sure if he is depressed..
2007-02-01 12:37:31 · 12 answers · asked by PINGU 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Go for it, man. I also have depressions sometimes, but can't usually find a close friend to talk to. I don't believe in doctors as they sound artificial. If you can talk him out, you will be do what friendship is truly about.
2007-02-01 12:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Freddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is depressed. Consider an SSRI for depression, or an anticonvulsant and SSRI for bipolar disorder if he appears to be up at times as well. Give him literature. Reserachign actually increases endorphins. It's his right and choice in the end. Also, depression can be caused by many deficiencies. If he's not down with the meds, try getting 5 HTP. Life is miserable, though, and there's never really a cure for depression, just maintenance.
2007-02-01 13:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is to be determined - he could be drinking too much - I hope not heading towards becoming an alcoholic.
When you go round for a few bevies are you able to have a heart to heart with him? Perhaps try to get him to open up to you with regard to the problem.
Although if he is an alcoholic it is unlikely he will admit it and if it is depression some people don't like to admit that either.
Perhaps just say you have been a little concerned about him because of the various things that you have noticed and would he like to talk with you about it.
Say there are people that can help him if he does open up, his GP will be his first option who will be able to put him in touch with other professionals to help him with his problem.
I do think he needs a bit of encouragement to acknowledge things are not quite right though.
It is a difficult one and I do wish you good luck.
2007-02-01 12:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jewel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could mention that you noticed he was feeling down in the dumps for a while and that maybe he should see his doctor to talk about depression. Guys don't talk about these things... they are embarrassed I guess. Women are more likely to seek out help for depression than men. So if you can get your hands on some depression literature to have handy, or email him a depression check list that is widely circulated on the net (see link below), he may come to realize he is depressed. Offer to go to the doctor with him.
2007-02-01 12:42:34 · answer #4 · answered by Caren H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a solid chum for being concerned yet you would be unable to help your chum. it is going to take a month or so for the medicine to take result and speaking to a therapist stands out as the final for her. in case you do not comprehend melancholy, you will ultimately get disgusted along with her crying and complaining. If she is definitely depressed she would be able to not opt to go away the abode, so flow flow to, take a seat silently staring at a movie... only be there yet do not attempt to furnish advice or perhaps attempt to appreciate considering which you would be unable to. melancholy is a undesirable psychological ailment and the final you're able to do is verify she takes her meds and sees her therapist.
2016-09-28 07:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots and lots of depression screening quizzes on the web. I would suggest that you talk to him about the fact that you and his family are concerned, then take a quiz together. If he does score in the range where depression is possible, your local crisis line (check your phone book) can refer you to services. If you're in school, contact the guidance department, the school nurse, or the student health center.
You're a good friend. Good luck.
2007-02-01 12:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too hung up on the 'depression' word!!!
Pissed off, up tight, whatever.....
Don't treat him like an idiot and don't accept any BS from him if you know it's not true!!!!
If he is doing anything that makes his life less than it should be...there is a problem!!! Throw it in his face and tell he is a dick and that you are not leaving till he deals with it!!!!!!!
Wish I had a mate like you!!!
2007-02-01 12:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
id say go see a therapist a lot of kids hide their depression when theyre around other people so try to talk to him about it
2007-02-01 12:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by munkiluvrmp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is depressed.He need your support ,but he dosnt know how to get it . as a friend seek the advice he needs for him. I was and still do get depressed ,but have a friend who looks out for me . Be that person for your friend x i feel for him x Talk to him,you are his friend!
2007-02-01 14:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't behave like this before then it's definitely a sign of depression
2007-02-01 12:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋