My bf has been in jail for almost a year, and I remained a "good girl" for about 6mths. Now I've slept with somebody else ( the same guy) a few times and now my bf is about to come home. He sort of senses lately that there is someone else but doesn't know for sure.. Should I be honest with him or what???
2007-02-01 12:36:01 · 23 answers · asked by Mrs. BCBG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would tell him if u plan to continue having a relationship with him but like i'll tell anyone never promise someone in jail that u will remain true. Just because they are locked up and their life has been put on hold dont mean that life stops out here. Life goes on sweetie. I woulda told him when u come home maybe i'll be here for u. But if he dont care enough about his life to do right and have to go to jail why should i? Why would i put my life on hold cause u wont act right?
2007-02-01 12:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i can tell you right now that it is not going to go well, but a relationship is about hinesty. If you hide this it will just get worse. And if he finds out from someone else it will definitely not be good. Honesty is the key.
2007-02-01 20:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by mike g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a way u should be honest but if he's been in jail already he might risk it again and give u a beating for 2 timing him so be carefull what u do or say to him ok
2007-02-01 20:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by glowing flair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how your boyfriend would take it. I feel if there is know way that your boyfriend can find out you cheated then you should not tell him.....On the other hand if there is a way that your boyfriend is going to find out you should tell him before some one else does exspecially if you care for him....
2007-02-01 20:41:51 · answer #4 · answered by cute1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be honest and tell the truth.if he was in jail he was abad boy right so why should you stay around waiting all year for him.think about this would he wait around for you.tell him you were lonely and you cant see him so you turned to someone else.
2007-02-01 20:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by SADIE R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.just get it over with!
It would be better to tell him now , then for him to find out later.Plus, dump that other guy.He will just make situations worse.Unless you want him more than you boyfriend that has stayed loyal to you.It's really your call.I hope you make the right dicision.
2007-02-01 20:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by kristench22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make up your mind who you are going to break up with. Men from jails is not a good idea.
2007-02-01 20:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love him & want to keep him then don't tell him. What he doesn't know won't hurt him. Just break it off with the other guy.
2007-02-01 20:41:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-02-01 20:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by jsmo555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. You must be honest and tell him about your partner. That way when he tells you about his he won't feel as bad!
2007-02-01 20:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋