Ok I'm having this major breakdown!! Here I am again with this guy who I have liked since I was 11 (I'm 13 now) and he was shorter than me so I gave up on him. NOW I saw him at the high school basketball game (He move 25 minutes away so I don't see him anymore cuz he goes to a different school) and he was getting taller, had way cute hair, and was just like he used to be before he moved: A good friend. I'm tall for my age (5'11) so I usually go for tall guys right? Right so I met this other guy who was really sweet, tall, muscular, (lol) but sorda shy. Not my type. I go for tall, muscular, semi loud, into sports kinda guy. I met the perfect guy last year but I saw him at this JR-SR High camp last year and this (2007) is his last year. I know I'm young but there has got to be something I can do to get this strait! The first guy is like the perfect guy minus the tallness but he's growing! (His dad is also SUPER tall) WHAT THE HECK DO I DO?!?!?
2007-02-01 12:34:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why else do you think I like the first guy!? He didn't even look all that great two years ago and he was super short but I still liked him! That's my problem! Should I still like him or should I forget about him. I never see him, I used to think he had a thing for me but that was last year. And the second guy isn't even cute! I'm not just looking at the outside it's just hard to explan their personality.
2007-02-01 12:44:01 · update #1
let your heart decide. if i were you, i would go for the old friend, because 1.you know him better, and who knows, maybe he has a crush on you too; 2. you said that the second guy wasn't your type, so why go for a guy that is not your type, even though he is tall, but tallness doesn't equal happiness.
g'luck
2007-02-01 12:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by ToTaLlY iN lOvE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Height should not matter, it's what is on the inside that matters. he is definitely going to hit his growth spurt really soon, so start talking more to him now. by the time you are ready to date, he will be a little taller. but still don't worry about height because at 13 and 5-11 you will be taller than like 90% of the guys your age. you have to realize that they will all be as tall as you in about 4 months. so don't worry about it.
2007-02-01 12:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Nathan G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell you what you do. You wait until the two of you turn at least 16 or 17 to start worrying about this. You are TOO YOUNG TO WORRY ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT NOW! What you need to do is worry about school, and yourself. And that does not include Yourself DATING!
2007-02-01 12:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by hammettgoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You stop trying to date guys because of there looks!!!!
Get to know them more and see what how they are on the inside!!!!!
2007-02-01 12:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Dance♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should go for the first guy looks dont matter, if he is the perfect guy then it shouldntr matter what he looks like
2007-02-01 12:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try to find out how their personality is
2007-02-01 12:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋