A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.
2007-02-01 12:23:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you really need to stop this behaviour now
2007-02-01 12:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self esteem is lower than low. The fact that you almost fell for the guy and was willing to sleep with him says a lot about your confidence, or lack thereof. It seems to me that you only got angry with him AFTER he told you to sleep with someone else in order to get over him. You were more than willing to give up some a** to him despite the fact he has a g/f before he told you that. Send a text to yourself and blame you and not him. He never put a gun to your head. Women like you make it so very easy for men out here. I used to be one of those guys so you can take this however you want to. I hate to be harsh but I'm gonna tell you what you need to hear. You are worthy enough to have a man all to yourself. Act like it!
2007-02-01 22:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW - long story!
But really, you need to leave the guy alone. He has a girlfriend and you should respect that.
He on the other hand is a DOG for suggesting you sleep with him in the first place. And YOU are a DOG for entertaining the idea of sleeping with him.
Get over him, get back to work and be productive with your life - it's too short for menial things like this.
2007-02-01 20:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by no_skank76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously a total loser. Ignore him. Speak to him only as it pertains to your job, otherwise, write him off. He is a jerk for leading you on that way.
You aren't weird...you had a crush. You were an easy target for the perv to get "some" on the side.
Make it clear to him that you no longer have a crush on him by your actions. He isn't worth your time...and anyone can see that he would just cheat on any woman he was with. Count your blessings that it isn't you.
2007-02-01 20:29:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rhoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone because he didn't want you for you but for the things you would let him do to you. Note that you made a mistake in judgement and move on.
2007-02-01 20:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from him u dont need him for anything he is a dog so u were rite calling him that . u dont talk to him okay and if he trys to tlk to u then u sld tell him to kiss ur *** and give him the bird!
then continue to not tlk to him
u dont need him he sounds like a damb perv
2007-02-01 20:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in a situation like this, this guy hes either confused with himself or playing some twisted game that makes him feel better, well honey i think hes confused with himself, hes looking for someone to cheat with but hes scared you'll fall inlove gard for him and that might ruin things for him
2007-02-01 20:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by InPhaMous Kiid DiiMey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider him too weird as well. E-mail him and say I understand that i am too weird for you and that is great because you are too weird for me. Then totally ignore him.
2007-02-01 20:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow hes the weird one here.like you say he has a g\f. so let it go. he will start talking to you in time. you don't need a weird o . have a nice day
2007-02-01 20:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know he has a gf leave him alone, or do it and get it out of your system, guys don't like mixed signals (i know i don't anyway) if your gonna do it, then do it, don't be passive about it.
2007-02-01 20:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by Brandon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him alone and stop saying sorry for calling him a dog...move on
2007-02-01 20:30:07 · answer #11 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋