WHen you can demand whatever you want form him and he will do it because if he doesn't you will break up with him, and how does it get to that point and how far can you push it ?
2007-02-01 12:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by Kendra H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aaaw honey that's so sad!!!!! A relationship shouldn't be about pushing the manipulation limits like that, it should be about trying to make each other as happy as possible and just being in love and helping each other. I don't think you really want a boyfriend you can exercise that much power over (as in, the amount of power you talked about in your question-- he will do whatever you demand from him and he will do it because you threaten to break up with him), because then it isn't a true, loving relationship of give and take. You are being a bully. Sorry Kendra, but if that's how you currently treat your boyfriend, or are seeking to treat him that way, then he deserves better than you.
2007-02-01 12:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by -- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you can "ask" for whatever you want and he does it or "gives" it to you because he "loves" you NOT because he has a fear of you breaking up with him. I don't know how it gets to that point (I'm there but I still don't understand hehe) and you shouldn't push it or use it to your advantage or you are just USING HIM and the relationship for your own gain.
2007-02-01 20:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why a woman would feel that she should be able to manipulate her boyfriend. To think that she can make demands on him and have them fulfilled under the threat of losing her, is unreasonable and cruel. Anyone who behaves in this way deserves to be alone for the rest of their life. Mind games are a big turnoff.
2007-02-01 20:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's very immature to demand things from your boyfriend or you'll break up with him. What if your boyfriend did that to you? Why don't you think about how he feels before you demand everything. Wait until your married... That will end soon.
2007-02-01 20:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that's the way you actually think then you don't deserve a boyfriend. You need a house elf or something like that. If I were your boyfriend and you tried something like that, I'd kick your butt to the curb and tell you to slither back home with the rest of your slimy filth.
2007-02-01 21:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a relationship with this guy, or do you just want to own him?? I think you have lost respect for him, you don't really want him, you are just trying to get him to break-up with you, let him go.
2007-02-01 20:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would u want to do that, i would never do that to my boyfriend he is awesome be careful if u really like him pushing him to hard might break u up i wouldnt do it i never take my boyfriend for gran it
2007-02-01 20:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's disgusting! Why are you so manipulative? What is wrong with doing things for each other because you love one another.
2007-02-01 20:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know when he drops you because of your pushy demeanor.
2007-02-01 20:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know... becuase I'm not a spoiled, controlling little @#$%.
2007-02-01 20:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋