He is 16 and has a girlfriend living an hour away, he hardly sees her...i see him everyday at school and we live pretty close. for the last 2 months we have been getting cozy, he puts his arm around me and we hold hands and snuggle on the bus..to keep warm yah know. lately he begain kissing my forhead cheeks and nose...i kissed him back on the face, but soon he began kissing me on the lips...which lead to making out, afterwards we disscused not wanting to hurt eachother...but once again the next day we are makeing out. i like him...or maybe its the attention. i want him to break up with his gf and be mine, but i wouldnt ever be able to trust him in a relationship. i want to continue to make out with him, but i dont want to end up getting hurt. im a jealous gurl and i want to be his only one...but i dont want to ask him to break up with her, cos im not sure i want to be with him. what should i do?
2007-02-01 12:13:12 · 17 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems to me that you like the way he kisses more that you, you know, like him as a boyfriend, someone who'll hold your hand in queue for the dentist's, make you tea when your stomach aches and still give you butterflies when you make out. You already don't like the fact that he's unfaithful, even if it's with you, right? So don't make out with him anymore, because it will hurt you and the girl.
2007-02-01 12:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love My best friend, but I am not in love with Her. She feels the same about Me. We are like a Brother and Sister and are in a similar relationship to the type You are talking about entering into. We went through a lot of angst and discomfiture before We sorted Ourselves out. By all means give it a go. But remember that You do not own each other and that there will be times when You are attracted to other people. Done intentionally break up other relationships, nor have others contrive to do so on Your behalf. If Your 'tryst' with Your Friend is something that You are unashamed about then by all means enjoy Yourself. If however You have any doubts, or are afraid of hurting each other then call a halt to it before it becomes too serious. Sex is fun. Living with the consequences of Our actions is not.
2007-02-01 15:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot have a friends with benefits relationship and be jealous.. It just doesn't work. Someone always gets hurt in the end. And if he will break up with her for you then just think he might break up with you for someone else in the long run. And since he's being unfaithful to her he will be that way with you. Quit seeing him and making out with him and find a SINGLE guy that has no strings attached so you have nothing to worry about. That way you can definately be his "only" one.
2007-02-01 12:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhm, it's not friends with benefits when you have feelings for eachother. Friends with benefits is a term used for a strictly sexual relationship in which each partner gets their sexual needs fulfilled without having to worry about emotions. It's sort of like masturbation, but you get the real thing instead.
Tell this guy how you feel and if he doesn't reciprocate, move on with your life. And don't use the term 'friends with benefits' to describe a little bit of kissing and making out. Geez.
2007-02-01 12:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
all you need to do is say look.... i am loving the attention and affection you are giving me. and i like makin out and all that lol but this isnt fair to me or your girlfriend. We can not continue to be friends with benefits if you and your girl are together. and just say somthin like i am not that kind of girl. and you really do need to think if you were the girlfriend and u found out what was going on how would u feel? put yourself in her shoes. be the bigger person and put an end to it or continue to do it and set yourself up for heart ache cuz karma is a *****.
2007-02-01 12:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by breezy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do no longer say how previous you're, yet "we've been appropriate for a month" says = sixteen or youthful very almost all relationships flow to **** until you discover the suited guy or woman. And that is totally real once you're a teenager, because of the fact at that age we modify lots from one week to the subsequent. do no longer assume permanence until you're complete becoming up. relish the suited month and desire your traveling companions nicely on their journey.
2016-11-02 02:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is that you already know tht you wouldn't be able to trust him........You HAVE to have trust-once it's broken(and thats if you find out)cuz they never fess up,your relationship won't ever be the same. I know cuz I have been there and I am still there.Love is a B****h!!
2007-02-01 14:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The honorable thing is to walk away. But most girls might have fun, if he's cute. Face it. YOU are his cheatin' booty call if you hang in there, and will get a bad rep at school. Best of luck.
2007-02-01 12:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible, stop right now and tell him to call his gf. Don't be that type of girl just cause you want attention, find a single guy. What if this happend to you?
2007-02-01 12:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
this really isnt a good idea but im sure your heart is telling you the same so i dont need to say that do you really wanna be the one to bread their relationship apart girl you need to tell him no do you even want to just be used for sex and never be loved ? i dont think so okay?
2007-02-01 12:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋