whats the best way to break up with a guy and you dont want to hurt him because he says he loves you but you dont love him back...?
2007-02-01 12:11:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him the truth. Dont tell him that you dont love him but just say that well things arent meant to last forever and why should love be an exception. Dont b crull but just be honest and sincere
2007-02-01 12:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to break up with a guy is to:
1. make sure you have all your stuff back
before you break up with him.
2. make sure you are in a public place were
there are people around, or on the phone.
3. try and be as honest with him as possible.
this will make him a stronger and better
person for the next girl to come along.
4. who knows after you break up with him and
you let him know what he had done wrong
he may become the man of your dreams.
5. he may be feeling the same way as you feel
and is trying to figure out how to break up
with you.
2007-02-01 12:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by Amy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not... Just bite the bullet and tell him... don't try to find a way to keep from hurting... that may feel like patronization and you could hurt him more. Don't be curel... but be straight to the point.
You said you don't love him... but you obviously care for him... because you don't want to hurt him. I would reassure him of that. Tell him that because you care for him so much, you now realize that this relationship doesn't have a future and you want to end it now so that you don't hurt him worse later on.
2007-02-01 12:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by JT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that ur feelings have changed for him and u still want to stay in touch with him thats what i usually do and its always worked for me i still talk to my ex b/f all the time but its gonna feel weird for a while but u will get used to it well i hope i helped u with ur problem
david
2007-02-01 12:16:20 · answer #4 · answered by david15882002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't break up with him in school. It will mess up his day. Just say: I've add fun going out with you, but I think we'd both be happy if we saw other people. I hope we can be really good friends.
But remember, he is going to hurt either way.
2007-02-01 12:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll be like sorry but the love i had 4 u was never there... it all was a misunderstanding.... so if u feel that my words are 2 painful 4 u then jus tell me 2 leave!
Be dramatic!
2007-02-01 12:14:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him that you don't love him and you think he should go find somebody that will care for him. Make it seem like it is just you and not him. Best wishes.
2007-02-01 12:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to do this without hurting him.
Be honest and try not to flirt with him.
Understand if he does not want to talk tp you.
2007-02-01 12:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by ALunaticFriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your friend call and tell him... hmmm... i mean maybe thats not the best way, i find crying a little and making them feel like its the hardest thing you have ever done helps... then trying to salvage a friendship... but be honest!!
2007-02-01 12:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by ms.jackson... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you just love him like a brother .
2007-02-01 12:14:37 · answer #10 · answered by Mido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋