2007-02-01 12:08:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was true love, I don't think there is a cure. My heart is still broken 5 years and 3 relationships later. Not a day goes by that I don't think of him.
It's just something that you have to tuck away and keep to yourself.
2007-02-01 12:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by scentualeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lemme tell u somethin..it takes time..there is no automatic cure for a broken heart. dealing w/me, the same person broke my heart repeatedly..my best friend. And the last straw was when he took my virginity and had the nerve to tell me that I should have said no, and that he wasn't looking for a relationship. MY BEST FRIEND, u get what i'm sayin..like a fool i allowed him 2 use me as if i were a prostitute in the street. Time and time and again I cried over that boy because I loved him so much, so badly..... BULL!! But each day gets better, believe it or not..u gotta take it one day at a time, one step at a time..seconds go by, minutes, hours..it gets better. that's how u cure a broken heart. And it may be really hard to finally just let the person that u so-call "love" go. Don't communicate as much..me n him, we still cool, but we don't talk as much..i'm in school anyway..u gotta find somethin 2 keep u busy, n try 2 hang around friends..the ones that make u feel good about urself and like to have a little fun..not the ones that repeatedly talk about the person u love..callin him an idiot n all that..it's cool at first, but u grow tired of hearing that..my female best friend does that all of the time, and i have 2 tell her 2 chill. Time cures a broken heart. Time, strength and determination..trust me..u will get through it, altho i'm not completely over mine yet, i'm growing stronger and each day my thoughts about him r weaker..but remember: the first step 2 cure that broken heart, is 2 4give that person..u don't forget..that's what a fool will do right there..but u gotta 4give.The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget...forgiving is the key 2 start ur healing. Won't be an easy trip, but the further u go, the easier the ride will be..good luck..
2007-02-01 20:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Musically Inclined 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure you've heard this a billion times but here ill say it again time is the only thing to mend a broken heart take some time to realize that being single means freedom just try taking a bit of freedom for a little while then get back out there and go out with other people mkay?
2007-02-01 20:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm trying to cure mine. It is so hard.
I have been leaning on my best friend. Trying to spend time doing things that take my mind off of him. But I cry, every day.
I am hoping that the old saying, "Time heals all wounds" is true.
I hope you find the solace you desire. And that some day, you and I both will feel that we are comfortable enough with someone to give our heart away again.
Good luck to you!
2007-02-01 20:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rhoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that "Time is the best medicine"
just wait and see.
Try to remember only the bad moments in your relationship you must have a lot of them.
And please don't try to forget a lost love with a new love you might get the two in your little broken heart.
2007-02-01 20:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by analee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out with your friends. Do things. Talk to guys. That is the easiest way to help you. My best friend lost his fiancee of 6 years not too long ago. They grew up together. She cheated on him. He is fine now. Just talk to people, and don't think about that person! Eventually your heart will heal and you can love again.
2007-02-01 20:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by Metal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh baby its gonna hurt, its gonna hurt a lot. I know exactly how you feel. Just you know try to have fun as much as possible even though it hard. Hang out with friends and other people you love and who love you back and who care about you. Dont try to be alone as much as possible cuz when you are alone you start to think things and that just hurts even more.
take care and good luck
2007-02-01 20:12:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry:( most likely he didn't deserve you and you are better off without him and find someone who would never dream of braking your heart
2007-02-01 20:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by Stacie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i been through it all u gotta do is forget him n find another don't sit there and sob all day do something OK girl just forgive n forget n u will get by!!!
2007-02-01 20:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by ~deelishis kisses~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN TIME...THE PAIN WILL LESSON. THEIR IS NO OVERNIGHT FIX TO ANYTHING...ESPECIALLY A BROKEN HEART.
2007-02-01 20:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋