My bf recently dumped me after a pretty long and serious relationship, and he seems completely fine. Does he not feel any pain at all?
2007-02-01 12:00:02 · 8 answers · asked by lilpumkin15 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first off, it's hard to tell without knowing how long you dated, how to answer your question.
There are many possibilities... he could have been feeling this way for awhile... and may have lost feelings for you. So at this point, he might not feel anything.
He could be hiding it also. It all depends really.
There was a reason he dumped you. It could have been just because he felt like it wasn't working anymore. If this is the case, he might have some remorse over the loss of the relationship, but he knows it's better for both of you.
It's really hard to answer your question without more detail... but to generalize things, I would guess he does feel the pain, but is hiding it. But if he dumped you, like I said, it might have been for a good reason... possibly the fact that he didn't have feelings for you anymore.
2007-02-01 12:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Charleen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, my girlfriend dumped me after a long and serious relationship, and didnt give a hoot about my feelings
we both ride a very small carpool to school (she got on it) and she became lesbian or something, and her lesbian friend is on that van and they do stuff reguardless of knowing im there
so yeah i doubt im getting into another relationship anytime soon
2007-02-01 20:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur saying it was serious den how can he not feel somethin he prolly just doesnt want u to see that he feels pain dats y u shouldnt let him see that ur in pain too
2007-02-01 20:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by ~janna~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when there was a break i pretended i was fine and didnt care. the reason is because i didnt want anyone to know how bad i was hurting. especially her. but inside all i wanted to do was scream myself hoarse. some people share their pain and others hide it. im sure he hurts like you but wants to stay strong.
2007-02-01 20:15:44 · answer #4 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had time to process and come to this decision. You didn't. You got caught off guard and are probably wondering what you did wrong.
Sometimes there are no answers to your questions. I hope you got the closure you needed.
2007-02-01 20:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is live life to the fullest. i know it hurts but hang out with your friends and have a good time. you will start to feel better trust me. just laugh and have a good time.
2007-02-01 20:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes probably just hiding it to show his confidence and independence. I bet when hes home alone hes thinking about it.
2007-02-01 20:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by Riceguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear lady... if he s cool about't-y do u give a damn-- u cn be upset over the fact that u wasted ur precious time with an @#$hole!!!
2007-02-01 20:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋