But then that same person keeps contacting me and he even said that he is not the one for me after 6 months. I've known him now for 4 years. I am real confussed with his actions. Why don't he just stop contacting me after saying those things cause I am not pursuing him at all. Any ideas would be helpful. If I ever have the chance to meet again, I will accept just to ask him all the unanswered ?'s I have.
2007-02-01 11:50:20 · 10 answers · asked by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he doesnt know what the heck he wants. and its unfair to you. keep living your life. he might figure it out one day and you may or may not be available. but trust me when i say not to waste to much time on one person. you could learn to regret it.
2007-02-01 11:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im real confused with what you are trying to ask right now. Either someone would say that b/c they are jeaous of that other person having you and so they want you for himself or herself. & if he or she cant have you then no one can have you.
In your case i think that he just wants to be friends with you and sees where it goes from there more and then later on down the line something might happen but you wont know when.
But then again he is saying that b/c he knows that if he dates and since ya'll are friends, he thinks that if yall break up then that will be that, DONE! and no more friends or nothing else. & then yall will never talk again as friends. But werent you pursuing him beforehand 6 months ago if you are not pursuing him now? Thats what it sounds like.
2007-02-01 19:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by fryeindustries2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's toying with you. Your allowing yourself to stay available to when he needs you. You have the upper hand here. Don't contact him, delete his name from your cell, phone books, anything that will keep you tied to him. Don't be strung along find something better to waste your time on like a hobby just make sure its NOT with him.
2007-02-01 19:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by anabanana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him about all this, but it sounds as if he has too many hang-ups to be a good bf for you in any case. Next time just tell him you HAVE forgotten about him, and say good-bye.
2007-02-01 20:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Husker41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to him and allowing him to suck you back into his weirdness. By always talking with him, you give him the chance for his little drama.
Tell him to leave you alone, block his number, and get on with your life. You don't need the drama.
2007-02-01 19:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by scarfyrre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he would say that because may be his in a really bad moment and he is not geting much help at all. You just talk to him and try to understand or he likes you.
2007-02-01 20:17:43 · answer #6 · answered by september_3_1995 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well when a guy says dont waste your time it usually means he really cares about u but he thinks ur better off without him that u dont deserve a guy like him he doesnt really want you to forget about him he really cares about you he cares about you enough to let you go and do what you want with you life he really wants you to be his but he is willing to give up his happiness so that you can be happy
2007-02-01 19:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low self esteem.
2007-02-01 19:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just can't make up his mind if he likes fat woman or not.
2007-02-01 19:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by victorschool1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him you are not bothering him and to leave you alone.
2007-02-01 19:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋