ok i called this girl on sunday to set up a date for sometime this week i called her on wensday but she didint call her back i left a message on her awnsering machine should i call her today or forget about it
2007-02-01 11:45:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget it. She's either playing games or not interested. Either way, don't waste your time.
2007-02-09 04:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you left a message on her machine, then I assume she has your number, or would know where and how to get a hold of you.
If I were out of town ( I do travel ...some ) and I came home, and there was a message that a guy I really liked left on my answering machine, I would go to the end of the would to find him, and explain that I had been out of town.....SOoooooo ...my answer is..you have called her enough times, and if she is interested, she will find you.
It's time for you to give another girl a chance, because I am sure you are a good guy!
Good Luck to you
2007-02-09 19:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try one more time or write her a note - you let her know that you'd get back with her that week and you tried - on your second attempt - let her know what kind of a date it is - a casual date to get to know each other - your interested in having her as a friend and only a friend and see where it goes from there. If she doesn't reply - your probably better off. A guy said he did try to call me 2 times and he even saved the note ( 3 weeks later in his wallet ). I never got the message cause he dialed the wrong number. We're together and have been dating exclusively for over 6 months.
Let her know your not interested in a relationship, just a friendship. You got to know someone first b 4 you consider a relationship - so why ruin a friendship if a relationship won't work out.?
2007-02-09 03:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by STAR 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'd try once more, just in case she didn't get the message. And if she says no or if a machine picks up and she doesn't call back, I'd definitely move on ... But! Give her the benefit of the doubt. Once more and probably not more than that.
2007-02-01 19:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
First you need to make sure she has been at home during the period you have made your calls. If you know for fact she has been around, I'd be lying low for awhile. Just remember that by lowering your expectation, your disappointment will be lesser!
2007-02-09 17:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Brian H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say that u should forget about it she obviosly doesnt feel the same way about y that u do about her so just move on there has to be other girls that like u the way that u want to be liked
2007-02-01 19:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by ~*!Tish!*~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u left her a message and she didn't return your call. Forget about it.
2007-02-01 19:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Forever_Young 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait a few more days, then call her unexpectedly from a phone number she wont recognize. that way she will answer, is she does not want to go out, then confront her about it, ask if there's a reason
2007-02-01 19:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by Drew C 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You get one more call... but don't be creepy. She may be really busy and you don't want to fight your way into her life... it will end badly.
2007-02-09 19:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by ashley b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it she's not interested. Let her sweat you if she wishes to go out. then tell her to pay her own way just for playing games with you.
2007-02-09 00:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by clueless 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋