I went on a date with a guy and I really liked him. We spent 3 hours or so together for just a coffee. I definitely want to see him again. I wonder if he feels the same.
First he paid for everything. Then he told me of the other boys he was in contact with. He mentionned that we would see each other again, but I'm not sure it was meant romantically.
I saw him online a little later and he was a little cold.
I would like to meet him again so I'm going to ask him out on a second date, but I don't want to sound too desperate at the same time. How long should I wait? Should I call him or a mail would be enough?
Thanks to anyone who'll help!
2007-02-01 11:07:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should call. Just call to talk around first, ask him how he is etc, if hes nice and feeling you on the phone then you should ask him out. but if hes all weird and stuff then just say it was nice catching up and say bye. That way you dont look needy and you dont loose either way.
2007-02-01 11:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would probably be easier for you to email him , that's less of a risk ,since you said he was a little cold. Listen don't put all your eggs in one basket. There are plenty of guys out there that would appreciate a sweet girl like you. Soooooo give it try and if he's not interested , wait and give him some time and you could ask him once more. After that just move on and you'll find someone better. Good Luck !
2007-02-01 11:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by lorrina b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say ask him when you want. Why wait to try to figure out if he wants to see you again? All you'll do is torture yourself in the meantime. If a girl wanted to see me again and asked me, no matter when it was and I was interested, I would go out with her again. If he turns you down, well then you didn't waste anymore time with him. Then your free to pursue someone else.
2007-02-01 11:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by kws504 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
while the form is over, merely be like, " howdy I had a super time with you, and that i substitute into questioning in case you may decide to do it back sometime." And if she makes up some lame excuse, then you fairly be conscious of she's not into you, yet dont supply up desire! there is somebody available for you!
2016-10-16 10:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id email him hinting at another date. Dont put yourself out there. Let him chase you.
2007-02-01 11:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by wheelsup 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just try to be his friend,let him get to know who you are,but do not ask him out!and especially dont give it up(u know what i mean?)
If he doesnt oh well screw him,find a man thats gonna chase you,
i hope this helps.
2007-02-01 11:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by tammy annie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart, and just go for it, he might be just pretend he is cool and waiting for your call. good luck
2007-02-01 11:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its too late your already needy.
2007-02-01 11:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats the emergency????????????
2007-02-01 11:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Christina L 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋