lately my dad has been a total maniac towards me, not a single day where he hasnt yelled at me or gave me a cold shoulder. sure ive grown up and learn to get use to it, but its just sad how he still hasnt changed. it can be somethnig as simple as leaving an empty cup at the table which is a silly mistake to me, but he yells at me and my younger sister and tells us how we are complete useless and how he cant see us as being anything in the world, lately he keeps going on about how i have been a nuisance to have around and all that i have done wrong was being late to go fetch the clothes from our dryer for laundry. right now i feel like just leaving this house with my valuable posessions and i dont knkow maybe seek a close friend. I really dont feel like staying "under his roof" anymore. he has just caused nothing but misery and deprivation of my freedom. I'm asking you, would you walk out?, because i simply cant take it anymore.
2007-02-01 10:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by loller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Depends on your age and maturity. The only person who can make you happy is yourself.
2007-02-01 10:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by GoodWillHunt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wish I knew where you lived, we could get an apartment together! I am going through the very same thing right now except I have a mean stepmother to deal with in addition to my dad. I know how you feel. I want to get out too but, financially I'm just not ready yet and I want to make sure that when I do leave, that I will be for good. Take my advice, put up with it until you're ready to leave and never come back. Be strong! You are a good person no matter what they say.
2007-02-01 19:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by broadwayaprilandtiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know its hard, but you need to talk to your counselor at school, or Mom? You didn't mention your Mom. If you just leave, then your younger sister will probably get more of it. Better to tell someone and see you can get help for the both of you. And don't let his negative comments keep you down. YOU know your worthy and not stupid, you have a lot to look forward too. I don't know how old you are so just leaving may make it worse off for you. Hang in there.
2007-02-01 19:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by K M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i know how you feel , my father treats me and my mother unfairly. And i had , and still have, a difficult time letting go.
If your father doesn't seem to care about you and your sister, the best way is to relize how great you are is to know it yourself. So when your father gets mad or irritated at the ''imperfect'' things you do, don't give him the satisfaction he wants. he wants you to fail. be all you can be and more with a high self-esteem, and believe me you'll make it being in ''his'' house. The only way i'd advise you to walk out is if he becomes physically abusive , then you have the alienable right to take you sister and go.
2007-02-01 19:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by ~calientechica~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree that i would seriously think and make sure that you are capable of moving out. call your friend first. Then make sure that your younger sister can come too bcuz you can't leave her with him all by herself.
i'm at the point of almost walking out too. i was close i made i to the driveway:(
2007-02-01 19:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your school guidance they will help you this sounds like abuse. as a former DSS worker. i would tell you to move out if your old enough but to talk to someone like guidance or school psychologist. good luck girl you go!
2007-02-01 19:00:40 · answer #6 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he misses you and just doesn't know how to communicate with you anymore. Try talking with no attitudes and or negative words.
2007-02-01 18:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by just1more 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋