he says he needs space or needs a break from the relationship and so you just dont talk to him at all or answer for several days? the first time my bf said we should take a break I did that and he went crazy and said he missed me and wanted to be with me again...well this time he says he needs some space cuz he has a lot going on so I'm thinking to do the same thing. He said he has to think about stuff so if I'm always there he's never going to realize what he misses I guess, is that a good idea
2007-02-01 10:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I could also tell him "ok I will give you space first" so he doesnt take it the wrong way
2007-02-01 10:51:45 · update #1
Hey,
If the man wants space, give him space!
He could be telling you the truth, or he could be looking for something on the side. Be careful.
If you trust him sincerely, let him go, and wait for him to contact you. Then you will know that it's YOU he's been thinking about.
All The Best,
Ryker.
2007-02-01 10:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time he wants to be with someone else, without cheating on you. Sounds like he dosen't want another guy to get you so he calls it space. He went crazy because the grass wasn't so green on the other side of the fence. Tell him you want to just be friends. Not taking a break because you want to know whats going on in your love life. And you don't wanna overwelm him so much that he will keep needing space from you.
2007-02-01 19:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by lil Trouble 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little hint. If a guy says he needs a little break from your relationship, it usually means he wanted to have sex with another girl and the break is his way of doing it without feeling guilty about it.
Sorry but I think you can do better for yourself.
2007-02-01 18:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give him space, but don't go back with him as soon as he says so, wait a few more days (without calling him), then if you're in the mood, call him
2007-02-01 18:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by #1 wifey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, guys like space.
2007-02-01 18:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man that sounds so weard- the space thing well it sounds like that he is growing up, hanging with his mates etc- his mates could even be giving him grief a bit. if he truly loves you he will hang around- otherwise if it contunes to happen start questioning it.. if you are unhappy in a relationship end it. i'm sure everything will be ok though
2007-02-01 18:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by tony c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think taking some space means I need a freebie time to cheat on you!!!! So sorry to break down for u!
2007-02-01 18:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is nonsense..
Next time he wants some space...
You need to start looking for a new b/f...
One who does not need to be away from you...
2007-02-01 18:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes give him some space
2007-02-01 18:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by xfile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just need their own time.....he's honest about it. Don't get too upset ....... just let him have his space and you and he will be the better.
2007-02-01 18:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda y 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋