There's a guy that I like and I know I shouldn't say this, but he's a little out of my league- really, really popular but not stereotypical popular, he's really nice, funny and intelligent, and he's not a player. How can I get him to notice me? We don't talk that often, but we do talk. I want to start off as friends with him first, but it's kind of hard to just go up and talk to him because he's always surrounded by his "too cool" friends that I don't talk to, who would know something was up if I did. Also, he's always surrounded by super-model girls. What is a girl to do? Real answers please, not just "be sexy." or "jump him." He's nice and wouldn't think it weird if I talked to him . i know i should be confident and be myself but it's not really getting myself anywhere, i need to do SOMETHING. should I work my way into his social group or just start being better friends with him? What would be a good way to approach the situtation/flirt/bring up&keep up conversations with him? THANKS
2007-02-01 10:42:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't choose the first answer as the best until another 4 hours, but it was so sweet :) and it was what i kind of thought but needed to hear from someone else. thank you!!
2007-02-01 10:52:05 · update #1
Oh my gosh! while I wrote the first detail, I got another two great answers. Thank you guys so much. <3
2007-02-01 10:52:44 · update #2
First off, appsolutly NO guy is out of your league. Cemistry is what it is all about. Guys like a girl who can keep up conversation, and who smile and can have fun. while your talking to him casually ask him to do something, like get coffee, or go bowling or something where you two can talk alone and get to know each other. If you do start to act differant he will notice and think that you are being wierd, just be yourself, just be alittle more aggressive.
2007-02-01 10:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a common interest -- a cause, some sort of club, a sport... something where you can meet him on a regular basis. Or ask his opinion on something you both learned in class together.
Also, smile whenever you get eye contact.
2007-02-01 18:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him. just be yourself while talking to him, show him the true you. good luck
2007-02-01 18:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show your full self to him, if he doesn't notice you, he's not in the right
2007-02-01 18:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by camo_sak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋