okay iv known this one kid named christian for awhile and he just transferred to my school,and the first day he came and saw me and gave me a reallly big hug then he would ignore me like i wasnt even there and not say hi for like 3 days.then the next day he would try to get my attention by saying hi && stuff,he did this like a pattern so after like a week he finally talked to me today without ignoring me and for some reason he was like trieng to raise my ego or whatever like he'd randomly say i love your hair,and would compliment me alottt and it was wierd why do you think hes doing this ignoring,talking,confidence building game or is it a game??
2007-02-01 10:01:32 · 4 answers · asked by beachbakini1111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is normal. I met a guy once and he was so talkative one day and then he would act as though he had never met me before. Sometimes, when guys are too nervous or have nothing to say they tend to avoid their female friend in fear of being ridiculed. It's a normal thing, trust me. If that doesn't help, how about talking with him? Just tell him how you feel and that it's really confusing you. Good luck!
2007-02-01 10:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just how most guys are. I used to date someone like that. But we broke up and i had found me a really caring guy. It not something you shouldn't wast you time one. Unless you really like him and care about him. TO most guys its a game. Just be strong and hold your head up high. if you want to play his game you can always do it right back at him.
2007-02-01 18:08:59 · answer #2 · answered by muri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but i truly do not no but unless u like him or u are together just ignore he doesnt deserve ur atention and if ur together DUMP HIM
2007-02-01 18:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by kilii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend does the same thing to me I gets on my nerves but i learned to ignore it tho if he does that over and over try to talk to him I mean Jacob and i did and it will take some time for him to open up all you need is patients and DONT I SAID DONT GIVE UP!!!!!!!
2007-02-01 18:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by dms_soccer_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋