my mom is always watching what i do, watches me when i with my bf, why does she care?? shed oesnt even let me out friday nights. i want to tell her in a nice way to STOP♥
2007-02-01 09:48:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
um me and by guy have done stuff and she knows, and doesnt care. so obviously she isnt watching everything i do b/c she cares
2007-02-01 09:53:59 · update #1
Oh gosh..if you find out, I wanna know!..lol:P My mom has always been the most protective person I'll ever know..I fell like she doesn't trust me at all sometimes..but she does like my boyfriend, so she's not too much of a freak about he && I..:D
But umm, just try talking to her and telling her that she needs to back off and trust you a little bit..
2007-02-01 09:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that one... won't ever happen, part of being a parent and a child. I wish I could quit worrying so much about my 3 boys but I love them too much. Just talk to your mom and tell her your thoughts. It'll help if you keep an open relationship with her. You'll never fully understand until you're in the same position.
2007-02-01 09:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by happyblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a scary world out there. Your Mom is worried about you. She, like myself knows what the boys want and honey it ain't your brain. She probably does not want to be a Grandmother yet or see you involved in drugs which can give you allot of problems. I can safely assume that she worries that she has taught you enough to be safe, and I do not mean in crossing the street. Just be careful,tell your Mom thanks for loving you and be happy in the fact that you are blessed with a parent that does care for you, there are many parents that do not care enough.
2007-02-01 10:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles98038 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is protecting you like all mothers protect their children. It's completely natural, and someday, you'll do the same thing with your children. In the meantime, look at it as what it is: an act of love. She doesn't want you to get hurt and she wants you to be safe. Think about what a wonderful gift that is!
2007-02-01 10:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your her baby girl and she will forever be over protective. Invite her out to lunch just the two of you and talk about it. She probably trusts you - but its that big bad world out there that she doesn't trust.
When you have your own baby girl (or baby boy) you'll find out why your mom does what she does.
Your lucky to have a mom that cares!!!
2007-02-01 10:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Only Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mom has to find her own life instead of getting into yours to the extream of "over bearing" . Many parents find it hard to start letting go in their children's lives when leaving the nest.
If Mom is single, she needs some friends or a hobby to get involved with, so she other things to be occupy so much of her free time.
2007-02-01 09:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-16 10:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't want you to distroy your life on some boy that you will not be with forever. Listen to her, she is there to raise you. Do what is right, don't do "stuff" with any guy it only leads to trouble. And don't tell her to STOP, she loves you, be glad you have a mom.
2007-02-01 09:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go visit the poor kids that are neglected and abused by their parents, and then go give your loving mother the big kiss that she deserves.
2007-02-01 10:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till you are 18 thats the only way she will loosen up. I won't be letting my daughter be alone with a boy till she is 18
2007-02-01 09:52:22 · answer #10 · answered by i see you all 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋