ok so my bf called me today and said that he got his report card back and his dad isnt happy and is grounding him for atleast 2 weeks and took his car away and his phone and like internet etc.. cause he has to get good grades this term and he said he wont be able to see me and we should just take a break?
what does this mean?? at first im like ok and then i called him bacdk and im like is this just an excuse to break up with me?
and hes like no its not just i wont be able to see you anymore and i think its the best idea for now
and i said i dont care if i dont see you i just rather be with you
and he seems to want to stay on abreak
and i said is it because you want to see other girls
and he said NO.. and even if it was i wouldnt be able to im grounded
and idkkk what should i think/do about this situation?? weve been going out for about a month now
do you think hes lying? or like idk pleasejust some advice would be nice ill give points :yay :)
2007-02-01 09:31:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well there is an age old adage that say "let it go and if it comes back then it's yours". if you really care about him take the break and see what happens you are still very young and have a lot of time to become serious about a relationship.
2007-02-01 09:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by emotionalyhurtmom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Glenn Close get the rabbit out of the boiling water (fatal attraction). It's been a month. I think from the tone of your question, your right he's getting away from you. Your wwwaaayyy overboard here. You have also let him know you are desperate and he can have you back whenever he wants, no matter what he does, and that means he won't want you. Just remember guys are like a bus wait ten minutes and there will be another one.
2007-02-01 09:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Randy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, like you need to take a break from like this child, and like learn to write like English. For sure, like. It IS your NATIVE tongue, right? Like?
Like, for real, man, if you were half as interested in your own life as you were in who your boyfriend was seeing, you would NEVER present yourself to the world like a knuckle-headed loser who can't even spell, or use grammar correctly.
What are you thinking? Anyone old enough to have a boyfriend would want to HELP him get better grades so he could have a REAL future, and not be a knuckle-headed loser working at McDonald's and being frustrated and backward.
He would want YOU to do well in school, so his friends wouldn't tease him about having a dummy for a girlfriend. He would be proud that you have plans for a future, like college or travel or learning English.
If you ever want to have kids, a MAN-not a child- is going to want an educated WOMAN for his children's mother, not a child who is just worried about whether her boyfriend can come over tonight and waste time.
This is your one life-don't screw it up for one kid in high school. Love yourself, and take care of your future.
Leave the boy alone, and YOU study while he is grounded. When he is making better grades, you might discover YOU have something in common. Or that you like doing well in school and can't believe you wasted time with a guy who might manage to flunk HIGH SCHOOL.
Be glad his parents care about him and his future.
Good luck.
2007-02-01 09:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's only a few weeks and for a good reason. Get a grip!
2007-02-01 09:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before i answer this how old are ya'll?
But I think he's trying to find a nice way to chunk the duce
(break up).
2007-02-01 09:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by MIchell G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad did the same thing to me.
2007-02-01 09:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋