I got together with another guy and had a great night. It was really late, and no one was there. We were there for awhile and kissed. Nothing more happened though. It was weird cuz the entire time, we barely spoke. However, when we got in the car, he told me that I SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE THAT because I had a boyfriend (he won't let me break up with him, that's a different story...). The next day, we were texting, then he tells me that it was a great night, but he just wants to be friends, and nothing more. But today, at lunch, it might've been just to spite me, but he was talking to his friend about how he was going somewhere with some girl. THEN, just to see what he'd do, I mentioned a guy that I missed and wanted to talk to. He looked sad and asked "What about me?" Then he attempted to do footsie and look at me alot.. So does he like me? I'm willing to have more nights like that with no strings attatched, because he's said he doesn't want a gf. What's up with him? Help pleaseee.
2007-02-01 09:23:09 · 7 answers · asked by kelly d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*Important note: He hasn't told anyone, and we've both decided to keep it to ourselves.
2007-02-01 09:38:54 · update #1
He's greedy, he's being selfish and feels like you having any other relationship you're having is like he has to share you; yet he doesn't want to take ownership of relationship you guys could have. He basically wants to be friends with benefits, but maybe more and is too afraid to admit it to you or himself.
2007-02-01 09:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jhaycen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH!!!!
Let me be the first guy to tell you that you are playing with fire here. First it doesn’t seem like you care about your current BF. So why are you dating him again? Have you asked yourself that?
Second, If I were this guy and I knew this could spread around that you two hooked up, I would try and put a cap on it as Quickly as possible. I mean really you cant blame him for that. You should be looking at your current situation before you look at why he doesn’t want you. I can tell you this, and I am only telling you this to be honest.. He will never respect you now.. Do you know why?
Because he is telling his friends "Dam man imagine if that was my girl hooking up with someone else behind my back. I could never date her."
Ironic isn’t it. You hooking up with him did more damage then good.
2007-02-01 17:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by ariesespo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you but also knows that you have a boyfriend and is not sure he wants to cross that boundry. Hey in the heat of the moment people don't always think with there heads...heck guys don't ever use their heads so I would say another time like is probably bound to happen again. But, you should also think about your boyfriend and how you are hurting him and how you would feel if he did the same thing to you.
2007-02-01 17:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well heres the thing you might have made one of his fantasies come true which would explain why he is gettign like that.. he has imagined being with you, and cares alot about you but tis not sure if it will work out but he does want to be with you
2007-02-01 17:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by marvin_martian0506 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Th eguy sounds like a freak. STAY AWAY
2007-02-01 17:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is just dragging you around like that, I would just leave him. He just wants you in his hands!
2007-02-01 17:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by horse_maiden19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hook ,line, sinker, got ya
2007-02-01 17:27:56 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋