I dont get it, did I miss something when I was growing up that cheating was natural and its ok to do it when your in a relationship?
2007-02-01 09:21:14 · 23 answers · asked by meh? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the exact same beliefs as you - and I dont understand it really. But I'll tell you this much - I do not tolerate it at all, in any amount from any guy that Im with. There are no second chances, no 'mistakes' or anything like that. I guess thats all we can do.
2007-02-01 09:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by radiancia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. I must have been sick that day when they had the class on cheating. My ex cheated on me for 2 1/2 years claiming they were just friends and after I moved out he thought we were just going to be friends and he could come sleep with me anytime... But I am sorry I dont make a habit of having candle lit showers with my friends :) Some men!1
2007-02-01 09:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by cheeks4u21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I can give on this one is you do what you feel is right. I have never cheated before in my life, and have no intention of ever doing so. I have been cheated on hundereds of times, and have been with the person even after they cheated, and have asked myself, what if i cheated? would it then, be even? would i feel better? I dont think its right and wouldnt advise it, but only you can decide what your going to do. Good luck
2007-02-01 09:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by kantriella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you didn't miss anything. It was those that cheat that missed the lesson.
People cheat for so many different reasons... insecurity, fear, jealousy, anger, revenge, hurt, lack of morals.
No, you shouldn't cheat - why bring yourself down to a level that obviously you're not comfortable with?
2007-02-01 09:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by ~StepfordWife~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is not natural people cheat because they always want what others have they think it is better than what they have and its not you don't have to cheat to feel good.
2007-02-01 09:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you state you beliefs and values right up front, and say you will not accept any one that cheats in your life, then you should filter out a lot. As for you cheating, two wrongs never make a right, and you know it
2007-02-01 09:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most every girl I've been with have cheated on me.
But I'm not them. I refuse to lower myself down to
their level. Two wrongs do not make a right.
2007-02-01 09:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by redman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never ok,if it's happening to you it means you are not with the right person,no matter that you think you are, believe me your'e not.You are not living to your true potential,and one day you will, if you have the courage to boldly go where youv'e never been before.
2007-02-01 09:30:50 · answer #8 · answered by hogasnogie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone does cheat - where did you get that idea? Some men and women still believe in fidelity.
2007-02-01 09:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theirs just so many good looking women out their. How can you not cheat? It's an ongoing struggle for a lot of us.
2007-02-01 09:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋