My bf and I broke up (I dumped him)because he was a liar and he was broke all the time. Now he says he only used me for sex and never wanted to marry me or have kids blah blah basically taking back everything he had ever told me while we were together. I said a lot of mean things to him (calling him a loser) but he threw it right back at me. Is he just saying this now to cover up his own hurt feelings? I am so angry and frustrated and hurt I feel like I am losing my mind.
2007-02-01 09:18:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people over-react to certain situations(maybe he did). All i can tell you is that he probably didn't mean what he said, i know he's gotta be hurt, especially since you dumped HIM. He is also probably mad because you might've beat him in his own GAME. So don't let him make you feel confused and everything. He's a liar, and i know it's hard not to feel hurt, because you let your heart fall in the wrong hands. Be careful next time, don't make it so easy to fall for somebody, first let them show to you and prove to you, that everything they say and feel is real. I know that it must've hurt to find out that you might've been used for the wrong things, but you gotta remember he's a liar, he just said that to make YOU feel bad about the situation, and so you can have it on your mind like right now, and so you can be thinking "How could i be so stupid". So just drop it. Don't buy any of his mind-games.
2007-02-01 09:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off the dumping him for not ever having money.. that's sorta selfish, but i know what you waas thinking when you did it, you was tired of him not being able to get the things you want or need and you got tired of asking other people to get the things you know your man should be able to... but no its normal to try and make the other person feal like crap after being dumped.. thats just a reaction.. but when a guy does it at least as bad as you say he has.. then that just means that you wasn't ment to be with him and in the long run you guys would have split up for other reasons or for the same reason just 10 times worse... but its a good thing that you got rid of him if you dont have fealings for him any more... but dont ever let money make a desision on your being with some one or not... moneys not everything... and if you need money that bad.. then there are jobs out there and if your under 18 then you still can get a job with your parents help... not trying to sound B*tchy... just saying dont think about money that much... and just forget about him and all his words cause thats just what they are is words... they cant do to much but stick in your head ... "If you let them"
2007-02-01 09:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by thelittleteapot_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll never be certain of his motives or why he says all the things he says. Just like you, he's hurt and hurting people hurt others. My advice? Concentrate on feelings and hang on to them when they come even though it's painful. Tears will help if you can cry. There's no way to get through it but go through it.
BTW, liars (which we know him to be) are very unreliable and he'll say whatever comes into his mind to hurt you.
2007-02-01 09:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, he was just angry. Just like you were angry when you called him a loser... I know it hurts, but it'll be okay.
2007-02-01 09:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by mzindica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wot a jerk. probly sed those things to cover his feelings but still he shouldnt have a go at u like that. if he lies and is broke u wer rite to chuck him. i wud find sum1 else and be happy. good luck.
2007-02-01 09:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by teejaysherbert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea
he is probably just mad at you right now he doesnt really mean all the terrible things he is saying
he does not want you to know how he really feels
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2007-02-01 09:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by THAT GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about the ex you were the one that ended the relationship?
2007-02-01 09:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋