I've liked a guy for 2 years, we've been best friends for a long time. One day he told me that he was going to ask someone out to a dance. Since I know him better then anyone, I had high hopes. Then he asked my best friend out, and I've been faking that I've been happy for him in front of everyone. I want to be happy for him, but I can't help but be jealous. My best friend is thrilled and won't stop talking about it(making it worse). I now hear it's getting serious between them. I'm stuck, and I'm feel so angry about it inside. What can I do? Leave it alone, or do something?
Any Advice?
Thanks!
2007-02-01 09:18:22 · 7 answers · asked by Quizgrl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like you like this guy yourself and actually you should have said something about how you feel from the start before anything got serious if she is a friend then she may have considered your feelings beforehand and left him along. i wouldn't bother about it now just stay out of it and see where it goes
2007-02-01 09:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by sills_paula 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never really been in your situation. The only thing that has ever made me jealous of my best friend is the fact that she has double D's and I just have D's... If I were in your situation I would just leave it alone and try my best to be happy for my friends even though it is hard. If you try to do something about it it will probably end up ruining your relationship with both of your friends.
2007-02-01 09:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is hard, but you're just going to have to let this go.
By saying something to either one of them about this, you will make things difficult between yourself and both of them. If they continue to date knowing your feelings, you'll only feel worse. If he wanted to ask you out, he's had plenty of time. Sorry I can't tell you that he'll change his mind and everyone will live happily ever after. Go to that dance, have fun, and find someone who likes you back!
2007-02-01 09:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him you want his meat! That will make him forget about the other chick in a heartbeat. Unless you're fat. You're not fat are? If you are you are probably screwed. You can date on the internet. There's lot's of desperate guys there.
2007-02-01 09:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Talk to your best friend about it.
2007-02-01 09:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by beauty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone
2007-02-01 09:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello quizgirl lave it as is and move on sweetie you can find some one else eventually
2007-02-01 09:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by harold g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋