My sons father has been gone now for 6 months now... no one has heard from him... i miss him alot.. still think about him everyday! My baby is only 7 months old and i want him to see his daddy.. what do you think?? Do you think he will ever show his face again?? 31 yrs old
2007-02-01 08:56:33 · 10 answers · asked by ncbutterfly_20 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
It doesn't really sound like he'll be back. It's a tough situation, but you have to remember that first and foremost, YOU are your baby's life now. You are strong enough to cope witht his. Yes, it's a shame that he went and left you, but there are plenty of well-adjusted people out there who survived with just one parent. Keep your chin up.
2007-02-01 09:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lucretia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl. Leave him forget about him. We all went through something like that. Get over it and provide best for you and your baby..He isn't a real man if he just up and leaves...But you will get some one way better and that would want to be committed to you and the baby keep your head up. It is hard in the beginning but it would be worth it in a the long run once you find mr. right.
2007-02-01 17:19:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been where you are and you need to think about your baby. Whether or not he does come back what he has done is not forgivable. He can't get back what he has already missed. It is gonna hurt for a while but time really does heal things. Keep yourself busy with your baby. I hope things get better!
2007-02-01 19:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is along time.you could try to find him through compassion search.blue cross and Sallyann they are world wide.if u can not he may not want to be found.if that is the case it is his loss not getting to know his baby-boy.someone out there, would appreciate your love and devotion.life is to short , move on .you want to be with someone whom wants to be there ,not someone whom feels the have to.you ever heard the saying set one free if they come back, they are yours. if they do not, they never were. everything happens 4 a reason we learn and move on.even if it hurts.there is better out there some where.i hope this helps.sorry 4 your pain.enjoy your son.the best thing that came out of your relationship...i myself a mother of 5.grandma of1 3yr old.my son hates me because of a bad choice of a relationship.and as much as it hurts i give him his space.i here how he is doing through my daughters.i wish you the best!!!
2007-02-01 18:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but it looks like you got hooked up with a creep. 6 months, I doubt it. Move on. Think of your baby.
Remember there are "sperm donors" and "fathers." Your baby has a sperm donor, not a father/daddy
2007-02-01 17:05:43 · answer #5 · answered by Dizney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seriously need to think about moving on. Too bad the dad is a loser, but you should have chosen more wisely in the first place.
2007-02-01 18:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think he left in the first place? Maybe you should try to find him...or hire a private investigator..
2007-02-01 17:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by cinnycinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not because he has another women and does not care about his children so since he doesnt care about u should get another man that your kids like so they would be happy.
2007-02-01 17:11:20 · answer #8 · answered by A*D*R*I*A*N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray. Pretty shitty of him leaving you and your baby
2007-02-01 17:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing him, we can't possibly know. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you though.
2007-02-01 17:01:59 · answer #10 · answered by tabithap 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋