do u just want the guy to treat you as if you are both equal and not the guy the head of everything or would you like the guy to take charge?
Ie seperate part u dont have 2 answe this part if u dont want.
IN BED
2007-02-01 08:50:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband and I have been married for ten years, and we talked about EVERYTHING before we ever got 'romantic' ... I'm 'boss' in some things, he's 'boss' in others, but we always TALK about both the IMPORTANT things in our relationship and the world, but also the 'little trivial things' ... and we are 'together' all the time when he's not working. I just joined two book clubs, he goes with me to one of them, but won't go to the other because he also has some things he'd like time alone to do. You need to simply tell the 'lady in question' that you'd like to have a 'long and serious talk' with her, and then simply ask her what 'kind of a relationship she'd like' with you. Simple, but many people don't think of that 'exchange' and therefore they may end up getting divorced later when they find out that their partner wasn't 'all as advertised' and neither were they.
2007-02-01 09:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd only want the guy to take charge in bed. Otherwise, forget it. My feminist foremothers fought hard for my equality, and I'm going to enjoy it.
2007-02-01 17:16:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need the man to be in charge, but he needs to LISTEN to me.
2007-02-01 16:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf treats me like a princess.. hehe i barely have to lift a finger.. i like it at times. i have never had a guy treat me like he does.. :)
its hard to get use too but i don't like to abuse it
2007-02-01 16:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet ... besides money, good looks, great car, huge ... house ...tons of charm... LOL
2007-02-01 16:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋