The thing is I'm scared of loving anyone because I think they will eventually hurt me in the future. How can I know if I meet my future husband?
2007-02-01 08:48:44 · 14 answers · asked by Kaylia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey i was in ur shoes too
u must have had a bad break up
well u need to get rid of that fear
and let ur self loose
in life u take chances
ur feelings will get hurt its how u bounce from it
dont worry u will find someone
right now u r not ready but dont shut no one out cuz of it
but be upfront with them
n believe me u will find someone
2007-02-01 08:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The prob with most women/girls is that they base there relationship on sex and they think a good lay is love but it's not. Evidently someone that you loved hurt you b 4 so that is why you feel that someone else will hurt you. It takes at least 4 to 6 months to even start to get to know somebody and actually until you live with them is really when you know ALL about them and not until then.
2007-02-01 16:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are at a good age and are ready to meet the one go to places where you are skilled. Sometimes the right guy could share the same hobby as you which is great you can do it together. Just be prepared to not think of every guy as the one. Take your time and date, be choosy there are a lot of guys out there.
2007-02-01 16:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I know the feeling...
While I do allow myself to love...I have to still fight the fear of being hurt. I'm not married so I can't help you know if you've met your future husband...BUT...your body...and heart...and mind will tell you that you're in love. It's not really one thing that defines. More like medly of things. But trust me when I tell you that you'll know...
2007-02-01 16:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by virgogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just be able to feel it when that "right" guy comes. You will meet him,and sparks will fly..and you will get "this feeling" inside of you after you get to know him for a while then you will know that he is THE ONE for you. It really just comes naturally. And NEVER rush into things when your not absolutly sure that he is the one for you,take it slow.
:) Hope that helps...plz choose me as best answer
2007-02-01 16:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Alyssa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a woman knows when she truely is in love when she relaxes anround the guy and they dont have to be going out all the time to enjoy each other, and the impressing each other phase has passed.
2007-02-01 16:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a good question for me because im currently in love and i defintly know i want to marry him, and he even has told me he wants to marry me.
you know when your in love if the time your with this man you dont think about anything eles. that you are happier than any time you have ever been. you know when your in love if someone asks you how you feel about him and you have no words that can describe how much you love him. everything bad in life seeems to go away when you are around him.
2007-02-01 16:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by katherinebrown06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all scared of being hurt by someone else. But we must take the chance sometimes.
2007-02-01 16:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. This is how I look at it...If you think you're in love then you probably are in love, maybe not true, eternal love, but it is love nonetheless. You gotta take a chance and see if it works out.
2007-02-01 16:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i have been there before..even with my current guy i keep my heart somewhat guarded..i have been hurt before..but when you do meet someone and develope feelings for that person..just make sure that you and him is on the same page..he knows what you want and you know what he wants...make sure that he mean what he says..and action speaks loder than words...good luck
2007-02-01 16:55:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋